You do this, you do that. Then you do this and when he says x, you say y.
And if you make one mistake, babe, it's on you. It's your job to keep a man interested, didn't you know? That's some 1950s advice right there. 🤡
Be careful with Hussey's "advice". A wolf telling sheep how to behave among wolves...🤡
I’m so happy someone posted about this guy!! Can’t stand his content.
The time when I watched some of his videos was the time when I was feeling so bad about myself for a guy that I liked back then ghosting me :( it made me feel like I just said and did the wrong things and had I just said and texted the "right" things, he would have still wanted me. Fuck that.
His career is one long neg against women. I truly think he secretly hates women, and becoming a dating expert for the ostensible purpose of helping women is his twisted way of gaining power over women.
I used to listen to his podcast. Made me feel so bad about myself…
Watched 2 minutes of one of his videos before having to turn it off.
Random man texts woman on a dating app - hey, want to come over, snuggle, and order in? Hussey mentions that this man hasn't earned that yet - and I agree there. BUT -
Woman texts man back- No thank you, I like to meet out in the world in the beginning
We should be teaching our girls to not even respond to a proposition like that from a stranger. I get this kind of thing all the time on Tinder and I immediately delete from my feed. I don't even give these men a chance to continue communicating with me.
Also, he wants us to contribute financially to dates otherwise a man will feel taken advantage of? A man who is in his healthy masculine energy is happy to take care of his woman. Neither my mother or grandmother contributed financially to the household, and my grandfather and father didn't go around whining that they felt taken advantage of. My dad worked 80 hours a week so my mother didn't have to. That's what men do. Now granted, I will always work, so my man will not have to do what my dad did. However he will have to do well enough financially to take me out to dinner every once and a while. I feel like Hussey is just one of those guys who operates from a feminine place. And if that's what he likes then more power to him, he seems content attracting women in their masculine energy.
So much clickbait. There is no point pursuing a guy demanding nudes. A man instructing women will give dating advice that benefits men
I'd like to date to finally enforce standards, just to see what it feels like :/
I don't listen to any "dating coach" whose advice involves a woman chasing a man or engaging in pickme behavior. Unfortunately, that is just about all of them
The specialist in evolutionary psychology Dr Wendy does that as well. I used to follow her until I understood that it was somewhat detrimental to me.
She always recommend women to have a certain attitude to find the right mate based on psychological facts in but where are her recommendations regarding how men should behave in order to be with the right woman ?
She says things like "there is an overwhelming presence of overqualified women on the dating market so instead of finding a man who is super qualified etc because they're not enough, women should find men who can stay home and watch kids". It's always about how women should shrink their desires and standards to find a mate. It's always how women should behave and what they should be and never about how men should be to appeal to women.
I'm so tired of this stupid narrative from dating coaches. We need to call them out.
No one asked for a buzzfeed article version of a man, Hussey
If you don't have what I want then I'm not taking your advice. I'll listen to him when he gets a husband. 🤣
Are there equal male to female coaches out there, or is it mostly male coaches? Are there any good female coaches for young women to learn from?
God I absolutely hate this man !! I used to watch him when I was in my early 20s i wish I never did . I never leveled up listening to his advise on the contrary he makes you a big time pick me ! It's almost like he wants to us to get used and abused my men . Women probably will if they keep listening to his advise 🙄
I can’t stand this dude!!!
When I was younger I thought Matthew Hussey was helping but I understand now. I think Mr Derrick Jaxn is trying to hold men responsible in some of his recent videos. However, wary of all these coaches still though.
Women don’t chase men neither physically nor virtually. Period. There is ONE magic text that will get a men come to you if he wants you and that’s by not texting him. He is probably thinking he’s doing a good job with his advice because he still has a audience but actually he just enables pick-me behaviour but he doesn’t care, his endlessly “do this and get that” videos makes him money because it never works so’ll he’ll have to convince women to do something else, it’s a for loop and it will always mainly return a zero.
LMAO all his advice is directed art manipulating women into being active participants into a dating scene that is designated only to fulfill male desires. Yes, be an active participant but make your own rules. Don't play by their rules, you will lose.
He's a total fucking clown, especially that video of his about "how to respond to his sexual texts" 🤡 Yeah we respond by blocking the scrote...the only thing good about that stupid video was the comments from women calling him out on his bullshit.