another GOLDEN article, with a 10 point list to die for

This is where the writer started to slip. We DO want provider men, who protect us and take care of us!!

And just because we want to be treated as equals in human value and have equal opportunities, doesn't mean we want to actually be equal to men themselves...we have to remove any male relevance out of the equality equasion, and frame it as human equality instead if framing it as male equality...cause

1) I'm not a man, I don't wanna a man, and I can never be like a man due to our biological differences...also men are not some superior, better or higher creatures that we aspire to be equal to them per se...so we need to reframe it from "being equal to men" to "having equal respect & opportunities"

2) this same statement have been used by scrotes to gaslight women into accepting going 50/50 on the bills and having women endure extra hard work and responsibility with a lesser physical strength and lesser rights...and let's not forget the garbage mantra "equal rights, equal fights" enforced by abusive misogynistic scrotes, as an excuse to hit and abuse women.

If I wanted an equal partner in cohabiting, I would get a roommate. The man who gets to enjoy the benefits of my companionship, homemaking, and body will have to marry me, providing legal and financial benefits that make such a deal worthwhile to me. I'm happy to live on my own without those conditions, and will do so forever if they aren't met.

11. We don’t want 50/50. He always has to pay.

12. No is no.

I gotta say I DO want a provider. Even in my card from my fiancé when we got engaged said “I will do whatever it takes to give us the best things in life”z that is what I want

This list misses the mark for me. We're not equal. We're not supposed to be equal. Our biological differences will always keep us from being exactly equal. And that's fine. I want a man who can and is willing to provide for me and our offspring. In order for me to have children and start our family, I will be incapacitated for who knows how long. I may be put on bed rest during pregnancy, be out for months of rehabilitation after a traumatic birth, die of complications leaving my new born with only one parent. So many unknowns with pregnancy. That's why it's essential for a woman like me to be as sure as I can possibly be that the mate I chose has the ability to provide and take care of our family. For those women who don't want kids. By all means get a man who's at the very least a good roommate. But for the women who want marriage and family, vet like your life and your kid's lives depends on it. It does/they do.

Equity not equality

not sure if i agree with the checklist because the last thing we need is scrotes weaponizing those values against us. then again that is what vetting is for.

welp now they can't say no one told them what women really want.

As a marriage and child free woman I loved this!