Came across this MeetUp event on letting go of toxic shame and thought to myself is this mens way of ridding themselves of any guilt or conscience of the trauma they caused women. (MeetUp is gone to the dogs now, it's toxic just like dating apps and no place to find a relationship let al

Most guys I meet in the past don't treat me special (which already out themselves from the count) but want me to treat them like they're the special man in my life. I've had some men act like I'm prime real estate to be the special pick me that's going to be their baby momma, jerk me around with bad

I don't know if this has been shared before but I wanted to share a couple of accounts I follow that offer what I think very Fds approved dating advice and criticism. On tiktok: • Ceciliaregina275 • Doseof.pink • Shawanda (lifecoachshawn) Another tiktoker which is more on the feminist critique

I went out with a man recently, and he is relatively wealthy. The date was…fine. First date nerves can happen, sure, so I allow some leniency for that. But throughout the date he kept making jokes about being cheap. The waitress would come over and he would say “don’t let her [me] order anything ov

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This disgusting article (which was written by a white scrote teaching other scrotes how to get easy sex from Thai women) came to mind when I read this post warning asian women about fetishist white males. Will... the scrote who wrote this garbage is one example of men who visit or live in East Asia

Ah, "trust", such a loaded word. This concept within a relationship is extremely nuanced and what's appropriate is very much case-by-case and couple-by-couple. The phrase "full trust or no trust" is a phrase I just heard used as a dating maxim by a male dating guru (coaching women), someone who, ot

Imagine going on a first date. You dress up nicely maybe a dress or nice pants and a top, makeup, jewelry, accessories. You arrive and you see your date wearing sweatpants 🙄🤦‍♀️. What would you do? I love matchmaker Maria's response to this. I don't agree with everything she says, but this is pre

I'm so grateful for OLD, truly. Lately I've been feeling an bit lonely, like I've been wanting to date, and my friend has been flakey about going out and being my wingman, so I decided to get back on OLD and browse what's out there. Ladies, there's nothing out there. 😂 After the picture of th

Thoughts? https://www.tiktok.com/@theisabelbrown/video/7256867914903571758?lang=en

Hi girls, After a recent break up I am firmly back on the dating horse. The last guy I was seeing was low vibe and I want to make sure I have fun on Saturday night whilst maintaining high standards. Handbook tips aside (yes I have re-read) please give me your quick and dirty tips? What I know so

Hi queens, I know we have to tread lightly when it comes to these so-called "experts" we see on YouTube. I feel like I have seen them all at some point! All I know is Matthew Hussey is a hard pass for me, and Mark Rosenfeld seems kinda smarmy to me,too. Is anyone here familar with Stephan LaBosie

This video is from 2 years ago, but it was in my YouTube feed. I admit as an introvert, I'm guilty of what he's saying in the video. Sometimes us introverts do need to step out of our comfort zone once in a while. I know I need to, because dating apps just aren't working for me. Any introverts here

I haven't watched this... not sure if I want to 😂 https://www.sbs.com.au/news/the-feed/article/over-250-000-couples-broke-up-after-watching-his-comedians-show-then-he-tackled-something-more-unsettling/i8mt1aue0

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https://www.instagram.com/share/reel/BAM9FVxOFv This woman explains it. If we, as good-looking women, give an ugly scrote a chance, they will become abusive and cheat. Their egos will inflate and they think " if I can get HER, who knows if I can get hotter". Whereas hot men know who they can get a

This book I believe was recommended in the handbook, so I read it for nothing on my kindle membership. The author goes into many FDS principles. It has definitely been written a while ago because some of it has not aged well, but she makes some good points that are useful dating tips! Here is what

like how do you know someone is right for you that you can move forward in life with, is there a feeling you get?

I am very open to meeting a man for a relationship. I don't really do the apps anymore, but recently I have met someone nice from a FB activity group that I'm in. We've gone on a date and have planned another for this weekend. The problem I have every time I meet someone nice is finding room for him

When men asks you what you are looking for. Say this: Everything and nothing at all. The responses are absolutely delightful 😊.

There are many ways to use a person. Sex is just one of them. And in my experience when a guy is using a girl for sex, he might also ask her for advice, ask about the parts of her life he is personally interested in, trauma dump on her... but stay aware: he is still objectifying you if he's doing al

I know you have seen here on your TikTok fyp. I find her entertaining and agree with sometimes but others not so much. I can't agree with marrying an old man because you are tired of working. Lord, knows I'm tired of working but I will never settle for wrinkled peen and saggy man balls because of it

So I've always followed FDS primarily as a dating community and was hoping to compare notes with you girls about our dating experiences lately. I took a couple of years off to focus on grad school, and have now been going on dates and have had such a positive experience now that I have done the work

Dear Advice, I am ever so shocked and confused that online dating is horrible, dangerous, a waste of time, full of predators, lazy men, and criminals, and harmful to me! Isn't it surprising? What ever should I do? I just don't know how to make this situation better! What choices and options do I ha

Girls, help! I have a problem and I'm hoping it's not unique. Or at least common enough, that some of you will be able to help me with it. I am very physically attracted to the guy. I'm seeing right now. Emphasis on very, to the point where it embarrasses me a little bit, how much my brain seems to

Normally I hate most YouTube "relationship experts" because they give awful advice catering to men and PUAs or encouraging pickme behavior blaming bad behavior on aTtAcHmEnT sTyLeS, etc. But I've been following Susan Winter for a while now and love her perspective on love and dating. This video she

Hi Queens, I've recently started to OLD after about 2.5 years of leveling up and omg it's terrifying. The typical male candidate is struggling. For context, I'm 33 live in America and in a medium sized  city. Here are some things I've noticed: 1. Height-fishing is a thing. I went out with a guy wh

This a trick your phone is going to help you with. These are the steps I follow to keep myself "safe" online, and I accidentally learned a lot of secret information men will never tell you on their own. The steps in order: 1. On your home computer/phone/etc wherever you use social media, Youtube, o

This is my first time being on here. A big thank you for the info about Matthew Hussey. He had a really cringy video on YT recently that seemed a bit redpillish. I ended up unsubbing from his YT page. I need your opinions on the following dating/relationship gurus. Mark Rosenfeld-he's from Austr