There is a 23 year old difference between them. And millions of dollars in difference between their incomes. The power dynamics are not adding up. I'm not saying she was faultless but victims don't have to be the perfect and innocent to be one.
I'm just shocked and appalled how the narrative was spun... And how companies and infuencers jumped on board like it was some fun, silly ride and not about something serious and disgusting like DV. How can people meme about something as devastating as DV?
I fear how enboldened violent men will feel after this case. I already see sparks of it flying. Cogs are turning. And I'm scared, not only for myself but for women who are already in difficult situations.
Anyway I just needed to vent.
It’s because it was a jury easily influenced by celebrity. Just like OJ. Can we please get rid of stupid jurors? society is too ignorant and bias for juries to exist in the age of media and sensationalism. For them to say she defamed him when they agree he did abuse her doesnt make sense. Mutual abuse doesn’t exist, but that position they took still shows that he abused her which should have exonerated her right there. It’s a legal and moral atrocity. Jurors are really easily manipulated. super naive.
The media is male supremacist unfortunately.
Gaslighting and DARVO works. Throw in a giant botnet on twitter and you win. Putin is the true master of this. Most Russians believe the war is justified.
They know.
None of them genuinely believe AH is abusive. They just want to label her as such to justify abusing her or other women in general. The slavering, loud, redefinition of “abuse” to include acts of self-defense or self-advocacy is fully intended to undermine women collectively and to minimize and justify acts of male violence and bullying.
Her only fault is to not have a high self esteem. And he is a big time criminal.
Youtube is for entertainment. A live stream of a court trial is just misplaced. Of course everything is going to be a meme people earn money creating content. At this point people have to convince you onto a inverted idea so you’ll be confused and curious to keep knowing more and keep following and watching those people instead of trusting your own judgement
Just going to say it, he wasn't acting like a victim. It's well documented that victims can and do get misidentified as an aggressor in DV cases when they defend themselves.
A reminder to never be with someone much older. He could treat you like a princess one day and a whore the next and the society will turn a blind eye to it. Women get together with much older men usually because they want to be well taken care of. But that can change in a split second.
What do you guys mean when you keep saying she wasn’t faultless? I see it often on here but I don’t know the details too well. From what I know, she hit him back for once after enduring all his physical abuse. And she stayed in the abusive relationship because abusers have a way of fkin w your mind and keeping you coming back. Is that all she’s being blamed for? And if it’s the BPD rage thats often a result from abuse where you want to leave but the power they have over you keeps you in. If I’m wrong I genuinely want to know the other details