I hope this is okay to post(and if not, then I’ll take it down or if mods can delete)
. I follow this therapist online on IG and I have always found her posts refreshing and grounded. However I came across this post…and I don’t really resonate with it. I It almost sounds like she’s making men in general be the victim and I just want to unfollow her. But Maybe I’m misunderstanding what she meant but I’m wondering what other ladies think of this? (I dont know anyone in real life who has the same views as FDS lol)
She certainly sounds like she’s making excuses for them. Young men aren’t socially abandoned, they’re withdrawn gamers/porn users and the new generation of young women aren’t interested. Young men aren’t told they’re worthless, they behave in ways that show their lack of value and despite society pandering to men in general, capitalism still runs the show so their worthlessness is apparent. Men are always resentful, despondent or angry. It’s why they start wars. I’m so sick of hearing that we need to care about mens mental health. Let men sort out their own shit since they create it. They don’t want female support, just to stop us supporting each other and getting stronger overall.
".... Men who have been socially abandoned, told their worthless"
Bitch where? I've seen friend groups refuse to kick out male pedophiles, rapists, and domestic abusers with multiple accusers. (Where there's smoke, there's fire)
They live with their parents forever. Schools coddle them and when they graduate, employers coddle them... I'm just flat out not seeing this "abandonment" she speaks of. I've seen the opposite though, my entire life.
"Told their worthless"
Again, where? Content like fds and radfem are not mainstream at all. You have to scour the internet to find tiny pockets of content like ours... So...
These dudes get called Kangs after stating they wanna spit on women and create more "disgusting" single mothers. Look at Johnny Depp lmao. Redpill dudes literally talk about 12 year old girls being the ideal breeding age.
I just can't. Her take is extremely out of touch and victim blamey.
Its internet and porn addiction. Quit giving addicts permission to blame sOcIeTy. That emboldens their addiction. You cant do shit for addicts, they have to help themselves, etc. (They're also abusers, so it goes deeper than addiction. Their values are fucked up)
Id argue that making fun of them is the best and safest thing you can do. 🤷
Look at internet addicted women. They become blue haired they-thems who fake tourettes syndrome or DID. They get mocked.
Internet addicted men stalk middle schoolers and shoot up malls. The fucking least we can do is make fun of their solipsistic and hypocritical values that lead them to do such things.
I'm curious as to the response this therapist is getting? This is a REALLY bad take.
I had to look up the definition of dispossessed.
Dispossessed
To deprive (someone) of land, property, or other possessions.
So does she consider sex with women to be property? Or possessions?
This is a really fucking bad take, y'all. Holy shit.
Who is she talking to? Is it again womens' job to coddle mens' little feelings?
Men are not our responsibility so no thanks.
It’s not our burden to take even more care of pathetic men. I’m sick of people like this blaming women when HE IS LITERALLY A RAPIST AND HUMAN TRAFFICKER. If males resonate with him they too should be locked away and have the key thrown out. Patriarchy created these problems, men somehow seem to have so much autonomy when demanding our submission but can’t control their poor little minds when it comes to listening to redpill garbage? Gtfo.
She's wrong.
Men aren't told they're worthless, they're told they're wonderful, special, precious little kings.
That's the fucking problem. Entitlement to the max
They SHOULD be told they're worthless
oh yeah, sure. as if women weren't already doing all the emotional labor to support these asswhole their entire lives! oh gimme a break!
they have NOT been abandoned. they are too fragile and can't take criticism. they want to be the center of everything and keep the power to themselves and boo hoo don't want to be the butt of the joke! "me? nooooo i'm not an entitled misogynistic piece of shit! i am GOOD and i DESERVE THE WORLD!!!"
how long have men like them been crushing the world? crushing us? and we can't even walk away from them because that means they're being ~~abandoned???? pfff!
oh my god this woman can fuck right off tbh
Yeah. @tindertranslators on IG has a good explanation on her story right now. I disagree with this but will still keep following her. Being in an echo chamber is damaging. It's victim blaming and ignores the extremely long history of white male supremacy.
I would strongly side eye any woman making the case that men are victims in society and somehow it’s low key society’s (see: women) fault as implication of that. Nah, I’d pass on her hot takes.
She liked this message:
Now I clicked the unfollow button.
They should feel worthless. Men have the EXACT same access to mental health services that women do, but they choose to follow the likes of Andrew Tate instead. They have no one to blame but themselves. And then, after a long, hard day of fapping to porn and playing video games, they sit around and wonder why they feel so depressed and suicidal. Although, the male suicide rate makes a lot of sense if you think about it….After all, if I were even half as disappointing as your average Andrew Tate fan, I would probably want to blow my brains out, too. I said what I said.
I take any and all internet therapists with a grain of salt. And disregard most of them tbh. At the end of the day, they're in it for the clicks and the money, it's awful. I take what I want and leave the rest.
Yikes. Haven’t been on twitter for a bit but follow her there as well. Her views on queer ideology and her moderate opinions can be somewhat refreshing. However, she tries so hard to be diplomatic and it often renders her opinions worthless or questionable. She has PickMe traits, and feels compassion for harmful men. Completely understand your perspective though. Would have been an automatic unfollow for me. Will do that if i ever go back.
Oh god no. She can fuck off out of here
Men need to speak to men.
Who told men they are worthless :P
OK, immediately write off anyone and everyone who remotely sympathizes with Andrew Tate. Seriously fuck all of them. I want NOTHING to do with anyone who is alright with this guy.
🤡🤡🤡 Poor men