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I am so tired of our overly sexualised and pornified culture. Porn is just millions of male supremacist videos of women being abused and humiliated. Music videos are just about looking sexy to entertain men. People talk about "Oh, it's women's choice," but they swamp the entire culture with this propaganda and then men and women get angry at you if you don't want to be a nice, sweet, submissive woman who thinks men are better than her.
This isn't choice, this is just massive cultural pressure. Everywhere, smile and giggle and hide the fact that you are a human with intelligence and thoughts. Wear short skirts, spend most of your spare money on makeup, don't be assertive and you might get somewhere in life. How do I get out of this straight jacket.
Edit: oh and if you do conform, it's taken as proof that you are all inferior and that this represents your whole sex's natural way of being and justifies being beneath men. Cue Jordan Peterson coming in and talking about how there's no such thing as sexism and that women make free choices that are to blame for this whole situation. And millions of men in the comments are like heeee hee yaw even though all of them hold sexist views.
I just stopped giving a fuck. Honestly. I became wednesday adams herself. I don't giggle. I don't even smile anymore if I don't feel like it. I just stare stupid men and their stupid jokes down and don't say a word. I don't wear uncomfortable miniskirts or a lot of make-up anymore. I wear the clothes I like and I don't give a freaking fuck anymore if men think I'm sexy. Even better: Since I started to dress the way I like and not to impress men anymore a lot of them don't even notice me. And it feels so good because then I don't have to tell them to leave me the fuck alone because horny fuckboy just wanted To TaLk tO Me aNd SaY HeLlO.
I stopped caring and started doing what I want. Truth be told I had been doing that mostly since adolescence, but it's only recently that I've stopped caring about how I'm perceived. Or at least, to a much lesser degree than I used to.
I like looking good for myself. I dress up, do my hair and makeup for myself. Not for men.