I was going to make a post about this too! Whilst I’m glad that a conversation is starting, what concerns me is the lack of focus on women being coerced into sexual acts that more so benefit the man and are painful for the woman. Males seem to do a great job manipulating some women into reeing how much they love anal instead of considering that not all women may feel the same as them.
This is horrific. I have been coerced into anal sex twice, never again, the worst sexual experience of my life. I would instantly block any man who even suggested anal to me. It's horrible that it has become such a mainstream part of our culture and an expectation (and we're expected to like it- as if!!). Reading about the health consequences for women- I'm not surprised but it just crushes me 😭
Aside from the good points raised by other commenters here, I have to say (as someone about to give birth any day now) all of these young women being pressured into anal need to seriously consider that, when they want to have children in the future, it is not a good idea to have a wrecked anus. Pregnancy and child birth really do a number back there. If you've already traumatized the muscles/tissue in that area all for sex you are not going to enjoy anyway, you are setting yourself up for all kinds of potential complications when it's time to have kids. Not worth it.
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I was going to make a post about this too! Whilst I’m glad that a conversation is starting, what concerns me is the lack of focus on women being coerced into sexual acts that more so benefit the man and are painful for the woman. Males seem to do a great job manipulating some women into reeing how much they love anal instead of considering that not all women may feel the same as them.
Women and young girls need to know that they could end up in diapers because of it. That's not cool
Immediately dump any man who suggests or pushes for this.
He does not care about your wellbeing.
This is horrific. I have been coerced into anal sex twice, never again, the worst sexual experience of my life. I would instantly block any man who even suggested anal to me. It's horrible that it has become such a mainstream part of our culture and an expectation (and we're expected to like it- as if!!). Reading about the health consequences for women- I'm not surprised but it just crushes me 😭
Wow once again, women get none of the benefits, yet all of the consequences
Aside from the good points raised by other commenters here, I have to say (as someone about to give birth any day now) all of these young women being pressured into anal need to seriously consider that, when they want to have children in the future, it is not a good idea to have a wrecked anus. Pregnancy and child birth really do a number back there. If you've already traumatized the muscles/tissue in that area all for sex you are not going to enjoy anyway, you are setting yourself up for all kinds of potential complications when it's time to have kids. Not worth it.
I have done it in the past (a few years ago now) and I still suffer from piles (which are really rather painful)
Anal and oral sex are borderline abusive to women. Only men who truly hate women could ask for those things.