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I said what I said. They don't have our back. I've been stressed and upset about this shit lately after a bunch of random misogynoir and racist/self hating posts randomly popped up on my FYP on Tiktok all at once.
If anything, MOC should understand and acknowledge the oppression WOC faces within their own community so is outside of it. I'm convinced that Asian men don't really care about their women being fetishized and discriminated against for their race but instead hiding behind that to call them "bed wench", "race traitor", "white worshiper", etc. Black men from the USA would start a whole new trend of going to developing countries and preying on women according to the stereotypes of their races. Calling Black women "ghetto" and random slurs. As if Black women are not discriminated and fetishized enough. What a bunch of hypocrites. GOD FORBID we date outside of our race, especially white men. But MOC praised for fetishizing women of other races (especially WOC) and dating interracially. When I asked them why, they would say "according to dating statistics bla bla bla" like just because you don't get a cookie doesn't mean others can't get fucking cookies.
They have NEVER take into consideration which gender created the toxic beauty standards within their community which made WOC hate themselves and someone of a different race or white men find them attractive when their own kind can't. Some Asian guy assumed I don't like Asian men and proceeded to say that Asian men don't like fat pigs like me anyway, well white men do so what the fuck does that say about you guys? Nobody is obligated to date within their race.
This is an inferiority complex and jealousy thing, also playing into white supremacy as if their grandparents didn't fight to date interracially. Now I'm afraid of falling in love with someone who happens to be white and get berated by my own community. Let WOC be happy damn.
In every single demographic and ethnicity, men think they own the women. Period. It goes down to misogyny all the way. They hate the idea of others taking "their women" and talk down to us, whether holding us up as some sort of purity breeding chattel or whatever. So black men are going to pull that shit with black women, white men do it to white women, and so on. No woman, regardless of ethnicity, should be obligated to suffer for her ethnic group and the males in it. They can fuck right off. Humanity needs to get over this shit.
Don’t let them stress you out! Conquered groups of men who then choose to follow the beauty standards set by the men who have conquered them do not hold much value in society. Go where you are loved and celebrated no matter the naysayers. Non-white men do not generally care about the added struggles their female counterparts have due to their race + color. They are too concerned about feeling “man enough” and seeking the female counterpart of the men who have conquered them lol. It’s funny and pathetic when you think about it. I’m a Black woman who loves her womanhood and blackness..but I’m not holding my breath for my male counterpart to do anything about my place in society…because they are conquered themselves. It really puts things into perspective for me to think this way haha. I do what I want and date who I want (mostly non-black men).
Do not wait for men to have anyone's backs. You'll have depression then turn into a skeleton. When you see posts like that anywhere skip them. Skip that poisonous content for your well-being. Those people will learn sooner or later that their hatred has consequences and will consume them.
They never have and I've been saying this for the longest time