Men who roast their wives.

Men who badmouth their wives in any way are absolute trash. Pay attention to how a man talks about you to his friends and family, and even to your face. It’s essential to have a zero-tolerance policy for disrespect from your man, because it will only get worse over time.

Men who talk crap about women are usually the ones who are garbage. Like the actor Jacky Chan. He calls women a headache but you should see how he treated Theresa Tang and his own wife. Cheating on her, peacocking around women and have several girlfriends until it’s time to kick them to the curb.

And the wives will allow it because they don't want to be seen as "uptight" and "sensitive."

There's a difference between joking and blatant humiliation

A male coworker often told me to get married as soon as possible, but then on different time talked about his wife like she's a hassle. What a way to make me want to marry 🥰

It's the tired sitcom trope of careless, lazy, out of shape husband and hot, responsible, caring wife. Someone here wrote an excellent comment about how LVM could have their "dream girl" and he could still treat her like garbage and dump her because he feels so inferior to her. Imagine biting the hand that feeds you everything you dreamed of (not talking about actual compatibility/conflict/attraction issues).

Sometimes I hate being single and lonely but I am grateful for the perspective and ability to appreciate people in my life. I would like to think if I find a HVM someday we could cherish each other instead of one or both of us using the partnership as a lazy punchline.