I try not to complain about this topic much. But the misogyny on Reddit is real and I'm considering leaving again. All because I said I shouldn't be afraid to say I want an all women's space because when men or trans women are allowed, conversations get derailed. I was promptly downvoted, I got snarky replies from other women in the sub, and I got a violation warning from reddit for spreading hate. I've seen men say much worse things to women on Reddit, sometimes in women's spaces and there's barely any consequence. Yet they made sure to put me in my place for speaking out. Unbelievable
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I am so done with the trans ideology. I'm a proud TERF. I used to be “polite” and go along with whatever pronouns someone prefers to use and now I just can’t. I can’t lie, I can’t be apart of these delusions anymore. I can’t go along with something that is actively harming my entire sex. I’m having a hard time even keeping friendships with people who are pro trans and I wish different opinions didn’t alienate us from others so much but unfortunately they do. And if you’re apart of a group that truly believes someone can change sex then we can never continue past that because there’s an unbreakable wall between us now.
The women who defend trans women have been so supremely brainwashed by patriarchy and liberal feminist ideology. They truly believe they are being compassionate, but what they don't understand is that they are being compassionate to a group of people who are in competition with us, and want nothing more than to dominate us. Domination is a male characteristic, which goes to show they are not, nor could they ever be real women. It's just another way males are trying to conquer women.
I just got banned from r/dating_advice because I said the true power of the female is restricting access to her body, Got banned yesterday for that.
Yeah it’s true, the trans folk are men who were too ugly or weird to get women’s attention the normal way, and they feel conflicted about being gay or bi, so they dominate our world and the pickmes let them!
I saw a comment on Reddit by a man who was lamenting how much the times were changing and everything is in favour of women now. He then went onto say he finally understood why men are transitioning to women as it is the only way men can succeed now.
Says it all.
Reddit is a cesspool. My 12yr old account was almost banned for reporting a racist and highly offensive comment over a yr ago. Glad their new ceo is running it into the ground.
Its okay to say what you said, OP. Funny how you, an actual woman, can’t call a spade a spade but they can call you a TERF, “cis” or “person with a uterus” without issue. Just another example of how unchecked MALE privilege allows common sense to be left in the dust.
I think the trouble is that men are used to being defined as men socially: as in they need a constant flow of validation to say Yes I am a Man! And his masculinity can be taken away very quickly - by other men. You know, classic male ego stuff. Fast cars, money, watches, cute women on their arms, winning at sports... all things that tell them they are winning at being male.
Trans women will still have a similar mindset because that is how they are used to the world working. They need the outside world to tell them they are women, but I think they must need a lot more validation because they know they aren't female. Liberal fems who are trying to be nice to everyone will do their best to fill that endless black hole of need. By occupying female spaces the transwomen gain the validation they crave.
Women (and the GNC / trans men I have known) don't need external validation of who we are. We know. We have been defined by our biology since before we were born whether we liked it or not. We aren't made out to be lesser for aspiring to "masculine" traits.
In my opinion there is no such thing as a trans woman, you're still a dude, delusion doesn't defy biology and if these transvestites understood that part then maybe this world would better off. Having a disgusting peter pan syndrome little manlet Dylan Mulvaney posing in women's sports bra's denying a real woman the oppertunity for work and have our titles altered and our space invaded is where these creatures cross the line. I sincerely despise them.
I'm a first wave feminist, a Terf and the real definition of a trans phobe, I want nothing more than denying them women's rights so that the trash will take itself out. Feel free to do so go ahead.
Thank you for posting this. I feel gaslit into accepting trans ideology and terminology everywhere I go. The closest thing I have experienced to understanding is when I talk about how it's erasing women's spaces, but then the script is quickly switched to, "not all trans", sounds familiar to, "not all men" doesn't it? And poor trans. I am so over it
More women need to be complaining about it. Stop trying not to complain.
Reading posts & comments like these make me feel so much better.
I also just wanted to say-in the real world (offline), I find that plenty of people think this shit is insane. I work in a field where it comes up pretty often & management is absolutely refusing to kowtow to the insanity of the trans movement. Nuanced online discussions are rare so movements that require thought-terminating cliches (such as “trans women are women!”) thrive on spaces like Reddit.
Please check out Meghan Murphy's interview with Jon Uhler. It's chilling. He's very knowledgeable about the trans delusion and the very sinister agenda. ' Parents are wary of strange men but put them in a dress and they will hand over their children no questions asked'. I listen to this interview regularly.
I actually hunted down this space for that exact reason. I was on Two X C's for a bit, then WGTOW, then radical feminist subreddits. Nobody was saying the good stuff they were just on autopilot for the males in the corner of their mental rooms. It was driving me insane. I swear they try their best to try and make you feel alone and weird and I was immediately like "Something's going on here" it's patriarchy lmao.
From someone who used to be hardcore leftist, terminally on Twitter from 2017-2021. I've dated trans women (breaking news they're just creepy men that enjoyed futa too much and decided to use their capital (a predominantly male privilege) to fund their dumb fetish and treat it like it's on par with a sexuality.) They try raping you, begging for sex, begging for any kind of gross sexual touch. Then they try getting me to pay for dates (even when I was couch hopping and they were literally fucking engineers making 70k for doing jack). Complaining and whining about paying off their electric car AND their student loans AND their two bedroom apartment (that only he occupied.) With his lil dick sucking machine and other sex toys and other literally very obviously manly shit placed precariously in his closet.
Most of them used to be literal Nazis and they joke about it and they're like "wow I used to be a Nazi now I'm a lefty trans girl named lily UwU (they always pick lily for some fuckin reason).
It's almost like converting from Nazi to libfem "lefty" isn't impeccable because you can name a movement anything you want, it comes down to how you treat and view women and minorities that'll ultimately make a difference as a person and determine sometimes even career successes. It's almost like if neither were sexually convenient they wouldn't be "converting".
I have been sexually assaulted by trans women and I've witnessed it happen to other women and they brush it off telling "terfs" to not comment on their posts about literally being r*ped. I can't even imagine the bootlickery now that I've leveled up.
Once you avoid those people, the people that'll literally worship anything with a Vienna sausage between it's legs, you'll find that you have real friends that can be honest with their emotions.
I have a friend who disagrees with my views but she's still my friend and she's chill about it, that's what friendships should be.
After I stopped hanging around the witch hunt crowd I've literally stopped being assaulted, I've started hating men more (and loving it) and I've started to respect myself and raise my standards.
Those women literally can't do that they try to make you feel bad for doing better than them. I no longer have to worry about being assaulted with friends because I have no male friends (anymore) and I don't prioritize "being inclusive" when I'm wiping my ass, eating or sipping a margarita. No more, that shit was so annoying and dehumanizing. Like I'm not the giving tree lmao.
The males fuckin love it too, it's like manipulation central over there. I had literal troglodytes hitting on me, screenshotting my no's and calling me a terf publicly.
Even on dating apps I'll say "oh I kinda knew you were trans" and showing I'm okay with it they fucking flip out because they're mad I'm not playing their weird futa fantasy game, I'm block them and tell them "I'm not walking on eggshells for a fucking stranger, I have real problems and a job. Goodbye." Oh and don't even get me started on how they're always white and vaguely middle class, living with mom and paw having money thrown at them because the parents are panicking that their girly son will never be successful.
Men recognize that letting women talk together without men present is a threat to patriarchy, so they've found a way to forbid us from doing that.
I consider the whole trans movement a way to scam mentally ill people out of money. I personally know a woman trying to be male, she was already mentally off before the big change. A lot of it is sociological problems being masked by pills. She is married to a nice guy who is basically a loser, they were living in his childhood home. I'm getting the vibe she wanted out of the marriage and trans was the convenient excuse. Like a good liberal, he is supportive but yikes, dude is not getting a divorce but she is moving states without him. Long story short, it's medicalizing a problem that could be fixed by marriage counseling, not just getting boobs cut off and buying a cartoon penis.