I absolutely despise this view of women's consent

TW: Grape by deception

A while ago on Quora I found this:

The fact that in our so-called women respecting western society it is seen as perfectly okay to trick women into sex and/or romantic relationships if you dislike her views is disgusting. What I mean is that "regular" rape, which is a man using force on a woman is seen as the only legit form of rape in our society. Even the misogynists who will brush off our other forms of oppression, will at the very least condemn the first type. But rape by deception? That's a whole 'nother demon which the majority of men refuse to condemn or even acknowledge in the first place.

What I find interesting is that, in all cases, everyone will agree that tricking someone into an activity under a false premise is wrong. But when that particular activity is seggs, suddenly all morality and ethics is thrown out the window, "all's fair in love and war". I remember when I was on Reddit, and a someone told a story (or a joke, can't remember which) of a gold digger who slept with a rich old man, then found out afterward that he lied about everything to her including his age. Everyone laughed at the woman saying she deserved it for being a gold digger. Not a word was said about it being rape. Rape is only seen as bad when the victims are "good" (nun, old lady, virginal super young school girl, etc) and even then only certain circumstances of the event. Rape is the only crime where the perfect victim and the perfect perpetrator set the stage for the initial empathy. (And as porn takes over society the socalled blameless groups of women will now have no pre-approve defense because now men believe all 'innocent' women are secretly sl*ts, but that should be someone else's post).

So many "comedy" movies, books, tv shows where the man changes aspects of himself, or even his entire life just to sleep with a woman is disturbing. The way our culture laughs this off is even more frightening. Not to mention many of those plots have the woman accepting his true self at the end anyway, giving the scrotes in the audience the idea of 0 accountability.

I think testing men on what their definition of rape is should be added to the handbook. Does he believe that strippers, porn stars, onlyfans girls, street prostitutes can be raped/SA/made uncomfortable sexually? What is his first response to hearing a woman in his circle experienced SA? Does he congratulate other men for changing certain aspects of themselves just to seggs a woman?

This screenshot was taken today:

I immediately tapped 'do not recommend channel'

Anyways I'm very tired, I hope this women's rights post made sense. 💓

Edit: at least the tweet seems to be supporting the woman in this. But the account calls him a "MadLad" so it's a 'DNRC' for me.