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We all know gold diggers are the boogeymen of guys everywhere. These ghost stories scare broke men the most, funny enough.
Society has no issue with a man using a woman for her body and youth, but will screech about a woman using a man for his money. This is a transaction for both parties, and women allllwayyys put in more work than men. Yet, when a relationship ends and a woman gets her fair share in a settlement, she's evil and horrible, even though he was clearly using her.
She's not a gold digger.
That's a hostile takeover of a weak CEO.
If he had two brain cells to rub together, he would have protected his assets. Instead, he's a chump who got taken for a ride. Idiot
I totally agree!
Men are not to be trusted because they don't mean what they say. They operate on being the opposite of everything they say and do. What they say they like, is what they really hate and what they say they hate, is what they really like/want.
Men complain about gold diggers but really, they want them in their lives for two reasons:
1) A lot of gold diggers are very attractive. These women provide rich men with their beauty and bodies and in return, they get money, cars, houses, designer bags, etc.
2) If gold diggers are after a man, it's because he has money they can dig and men with lower incomes can't relate - Men who aren't all that financially, complain about gold diggers because having gold diggers coming after them would mean that they are wealthy. It's bragging rights to men that are struggling financially, to have women that are after them for their money. When this isn't the case (i.e. they can't brag about having women chasing them for their wealth), they get resentful because it's a reminder that they're not all that, financially. Basically, having gold diggers coming after you is a status of financial success to these kinds of men.
I was young and foolish and I did pay once for a date with a high school teacher. He was in his late 30s. That's what he told me, but he was actually 41. From the very beginning he mentioned something about materialistic women and how how he doesn't want to date one so he was just testing me to see if I was a good fit for him. In other words, he was a broke scrote who didn't have money to spend on his date and wanted me to pay for everything. I ended up paying for myself because one gets tired from a walk date. and I was just having my 1 st job after college and so proud I was financially independent. I thought it was pathetic of him at his age... A grown man who claims he shouldn't pay because he's a teacher and doesn't have a big salary... If he wants to date he should maybe get a 2nd job. So this dusty was afraid I was a gold digger. To my utter shock, just because I didn't call him a broke scrote to his face he dared calling me to say he had the best date ever. ☠️ I was like: shouldn't you be busy making some money to pay your bills right now? I don't think we're a good match, Steven, you still struggle to buy a date a bottle of water ffs.☠️ He had the gull to say I was being rude.
So true… the only guys who I’ve met that were paranoid about gold diggers were broke. One was a mailman and the other was a retail worker. Males who actually have money are not concerned about ‘gold digging’.
The mailman was actually saying that when he gets married he would put his assets into an LLC so his future wife couldn’t get them in a divorce. Not sure why he was worried about it, if I was actually trying to use a man for his money I certainly wouldn’t target a mailman who lives in the hood lmaooo.
I think these guys who claim that their ex stole all their money were actually offering her money and buying her things, then when the relationship didn’t work out he got all resentful of the money he spent and claimed she swindled him. Some guys seem to think women are like vending machines where if you just keep putting money in she will stick around.