Many women let their career go to waste because of a man.

If they can’t make you do what they want then they will stop looking after the children so that you have no choice but to give it all up. So don’t deal with men or give them children when you still havent sorted your life out.

You might think that leaving your career is worth it but a man can walk away any time because he knows that he doesn‘t owe you loyalty even if you caught a Bullet for him. If you give up your dream then what?

Since when is being his forever girlfriend a reward? How has that ever been beneficial? Or more worth than the ability to look after yourself?

Your dream is your reward, The only thing precious in this world is your life, your time, and your dream, so why sacrifice that for a man who can’t nor willing to repay that?

It sucks to be alone with a career but it sucks even more when you are on the streets because you robbed yourself from the rights women activists gave you.

Save your career from men and your career will save you from them.

Careers are worthy of a leap of faith, not men because If you do fail you’re in a much better place than where you started.

When a man leaves after years of cutting yourself too short then you are not in a better place than where you started, you are viewed as scored, used up with no achievements. And you’re just feeding the stereo type that men always achieve more than women.

Choose security over a man’s promise. Choose observable facts over some fantasy that men will love you for real and forever.

There was a time where I gave a dude money and cancelled a trip to a place where I always wanted to go, with a promise that I’ll get it back very soon so that I can still go before the year ends, and when he had the money he started accusing me of crap I didn’t do and I got ghosted. I had all kinds of mixed emotions, anger, betrayal, hatred but also relief.

Relief that my sacrifice wasn’t huge and that has been a lesson, What if It was my career I’m giving up for him? And he deleted himself like that?

Never ever allow this, when A man touches your career or education, gets between simple things like vacation or a trip because his needs come first then he has proven right on the spot that he doesn’t love you. He just loves seeing you beneath him.

Most women on their deathbed regret not following their hearts desires. And I’m positive men are the reason why they failed.