Is this normal mentor behaviour?

I took a 1 year long 1-1 mentorship from J and she helped me a lot. This was 2021-2022. Then In end of 2022, I ended up finding a great job, which happened to be the same industry my mentor was in. Anyways there were some times when J would say “you should help me when you learn some stuff from K” (k was my boss from new job) and “but don’t tell K that’s your plan haha”. She’s also forwarded me K’s newsletter and basically wanted to be featured in J’s services and just times where I felt uncomfortable as if I needed to introduce my mentor and bring her business to my boss and like help out my mentor.

Anyways last November I quit my job and mentor doesn’t know. She texted me during that time asking for advice and if I heard anything in the business world as things are slowing down and that she misses me. I didn’t reply, I was stressed out from toxic job, family and health issues. She texted me next two months with “hey how you are” “hi are you doing well” then I finally was gonna text and just tell her things are rough rn and I need time. But then the day after she messaged “we need to speak” and I froze. The day after she called and I didn’t pick up.

I don’t know. Is this how a mentor supposed to be? I feel like she just wants my help because o who I used to work for. Am I over reacting? Like I’ve always had this little feeling after mentorship ended and I got a new job, she would try to get help from me only because of who I worked for. I felt a bit taken advantage of because I feel like bc she mentored me I owe her?