I just want to thank this amazing community of women. I leveled up thanks to ya'll.

I don't come around that often now that FDS is off reddit. I still follow the podcast Instagram and twitter (though the socials don't seem to be very active these days) but I find this forum a bit clunky slow and hard to use so I just find myself coming to it less and less.

However, I just wanted to celebrate with the incredible community that made me who I am today (some of you may remember my post about leaving my fiancé and writing him and epic two page long note). I have been heads down and hard working over the last year and a half. I am now going from a fine dining server (making 70k+ a year) to a Software engineer making almost double. Shout out to the ladies at r/femalelevelupstrategy that really guided me on this path and taught me what to do and what to look out for!

I am happily single not even trying to date and living my best life. I don't need the stress of men anymore to attempt to make me happy. I'm happy alone and only way I'm going to allow a man in is if he makes me happier than I am now.

I am just so thankful to all of you. I wouldn't be the person I am now if it wasn't for this incredible community and I will always be thankful for that. Thank you all so much for all of the advice laughs and stern talking to's I have gotten from ya'll. I'd probably be married with a husband I hate and a dead end job that I hated more.

So much love.