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I've been seeing a guy he has both LVM and HVM traits for 2 years and I'm at a fork in the road on ending it. There feels to be pressure on marriage starting to happen.
I grew up with a toxic pick me mom, she's started to introduce topics like settling down and using verbiage akin to me settling down. Like she's getting tired of seeing me home.. or as if having a spouse is my last hope in her eyes. (For various reasons: She does not know about my degree.)
Admittedly, I have lived a life of poverty and there are many things I have not been able to experience of things I WANT in my 31 years of life. Being in poverty has been always what everyone can get out of me.
I am childfree and about to graduate with my bachelors degree. What I want is to live alone and date casually or... don't! I want to choose. I have followed FDS as best as my resources allow me to. I have no problem chasing what I want-
What's grating on me is as I follow my career I will be effectively removing those 2 options you read above out of my way. I am starting to feel the effects of where this degree will take me, not everyone I care about will be able to come with me.
"I've been seeing a guy he has both LVM and HVM traits for 2 years and I'm at a fork in the road on ending it."
Block and delete should be your first course of action. If you really feel like you owe him an explanation, just give him an excuse. Any excuse/lie will do. He doesn't give a shit about you anyway, considering he's been using your body/energy for two years and hasn't produced a ring.
You're 31 years old and ready to start your life. Do you live with your mom? If so, can you afford to move out? If not, you should be focusing on finding a higher-paid job so you can move out and live life the way you want.
But yeah, drop the scrote. That should be the first and easiest step. And then focus on the money. You'll find that once you have more money, some things will fall into place naturally.
End it.
So say you have a sandwich. The sandwich is the tastiest sandwich you have ever had. But there's shit on it. Do you still eat that sandwich? No. In this metaphor, the shit is the LVM traits and the tastiness of the sandwich is the HVM traits. Stop eating that sandwich.
"Not everyone I care about will be able to come with me" girl I just got CHILLSSS!!!
But seriously, I can relate. I think we always lost people when we're moving in life (either up or down). The rest of your life is waiting for you, girl! Congrats on your degree
Congrats on your bachelors! That is a great accomplishment. May it be a stepping stone out of poverty, and may you gain financial security.
I agree with others: if a man is a mixture of HV and LV, he’s 100% LV. He is holding you back from your dreams and goals.
I look forward to hearing how your life improves, without him.