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This is an old book but omg it is full of gems. Straight from the Scrote's mouth. He lists out multiple excuses that men give when they don't want to commit, and it's like reading a collection of all the posts that FDS women put up before they leveled up and realized the shit men pull. This book and Why Men Love Bitches should be mandatory reading for every last woman. In case people dont know, it was written by two writers from SATC while discussing it in one of their writer's rooms, and covers the ground on the list of excuses men have to not date women.
Ladies trust your instinct and stop wasting time prioritizing a man who treats you like an option. Let me know if any of you have read this book.
There's a section near the end of the book called 'Standard Suggestions', which presents all the obvious things we shouldn't accept in relationships with men. This should be the absolute bare minimum level of standards for every woman. Very worth memorising. STANDARD SUGGESTIONS
I will not go out with a man who hasn’t asked me out first.
I will not go out with a man who keeps me waiting by the phone.
I will not date a man who isn’t sure he wants to date me.
I will not date a man who makes me feel sexually undesirable.
I will not date a man who drinks or does drugs to an extent that makes me uncomfortable.
I will not be with a man who’s afraid to talk about our future.
I will not, under any circumstances, spend my precious time with a man who has already rejected me.
I will not date a man who is married.
I will not be with a man who is not clearly a good, kind, loving person.