Has anyone read “ all men are jerks until proven otherwise ”by daylle Deana .

The FDS patreon does!

Just finished reading the whole book !! Honestly very insightful to brush up what’s already been taught in fds principals . I cud see a bit of pickneness in some chapters but we gotta take the gems 💎 we can from every book and leave the rest . It’s about “ you can’t change a man you just can’t so we have two choices either stick with him and bear his nuances or leave . There is no grey area in between . Also a lot of interviews from men it’s quite insightful straight from horse ‘s mouth . Give it a read if you got time ☺️ Learnt A lot from it

some of the quotes

We can't settle for pieces from a man. We can't trade our happiness and self-respect for the opportunity to be held, cuddled and given tenderness. we can't give ourselves away for the words we want to hear if there's no action behind them. We deserve a healthy man who can make us happy. We can't stop remembering: "All men are jerks until proven otherwise." Until he proves otherwise, we can't get too caught up in his "goodies".

Milking the good stuff while mentally drawing a blueprint for renovating him won’t work. You must accept men as they are! Sometimes when you effectively change your response to his behavior, you may get what you want. But blinding yourself with visions of his potential can help you ignore the negative signs. These visions can drive you to keep working on your latest HIM, while taking energy away from your own well-being ..