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Just wondering what the FDS consensus is?
My best friend (closer to a sister than my actual sister) got engaged to a man she met 4 months previously. She tends to have a pretty FDS-adjacent view of things, and he seems alright for now.
On the one hand, she knew what she wanted and he was very clear about his feelings for her. I'm genuinely happy for her and it's great to see her so excited.
On the other... well, I mean, it's 4 months. I find myself holding my breath sometimes, waiting for the shoe to drop.
She's 26, he's 23. I'm 30, almost 31, and I'd be open to marriage with the right person relatively quickly (my time will not be wasted on a forever-girlfriend situation), but even I'd be wary here.
What do you ladies think?
Four months?! Is he like in the military or something?