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I know dudes and pickmes who LOVE spreading propaganda about how women need and want babies, but honestly, they're lying.
My weight has fluctuated by more than 60lbs, but guess where the ONLY place I have oatmeal raisin cookie skin is? My belly.
Men will say they don't care, but theyre lying about that too. They'll still fuck you will oatmeal raisin belly skin, but they will definitely love you less because their love is conditional and based on how much you look like a child in some areas.
I peed myself as an adult twice in the past three years despite trying to retrain my body.
I am finally getting to the point after eight years where the muscles in my belly aren't spaced apart (ask a mom, they'll show you where the cartilage just sort of implodes).
This is all added into the stress of newborns, the pain of childbirth (hurt WAY more than the only broken bone I ever got and lasted for fucking ever).
The bleeding nipples from breastfeeding.
And NOW, what men want is "families." Btw, they don't, they want a trophy.
Get an IUD and lie about it like he lies about his phone. Being an intentionally single mother with an online job is so much easier than dealing with a man, also.
Just dropping the sad truth bombs today.
Love you guys.
What incensed me is that we're told to celebrate "dadbods" 🤡
If there's any kind of body we should celebrate, it'd be a mother's because she brought a new life into the world through something that could cost her her life.
"And NOW, what men want is 'families.' Btw, they don't, they want a trophy."
Men who say they want families are actually looking for a brood mare and a workhorse rolled into one. I have always steered clear of these types of men. It's easy because I'm childfree, and I see right through them.
I've heard these are extremely painful to get inserted. In my country they do not offer sedation or pain relief. Just FYI for those who are considering getting one.
For LVM this is true, there's countless stories from Reddit of men saying they lost attraction towards their gfs post partum body. There's also women on reddit who have said that during and after pregnancy their bf was pressuring them to lose weight.
If I wanted kids I would seriously consider saving a shit ton of money and becoming a single mother.
Lie about it like he lies about his phone ! Ha spot on sis
Man what I wouldn't give to be the version of "fat" that I thought I was before pregnancies!
I have the honor of having a lousy body even without having had a child. I'm not morbidly obese, but I have a FUPA. I can't wear sexy underwear or lingerie or swimwear because of it. It can only be removed via surgery, but I can't afford it, and any surgeon in this department happens to be a man. I shudder to think if I had a child, my FUPA would practically fall to the ground.