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I spoke with a long-time friend recently, and she told me she was in the process of divorcing her husband. They have two young children together.
This news came as a surprise to me, as I thought her husband was HV. I did not know him well, but on the surface, he seemed perfect—well-mannered, educated, high-earning, attractive, and a good parent. They seemed like a happy family.
I know not all marriages are as they seem, but this one really threw me for a loop—her husband had abused her verbally, emotionally, and physically for a decade, and I never knew. Really scary stuff.
I guess I'm posting this as a reminder that the only two people who really know what's going on inside a marriage are the two people married to each other (and perhaps their children). Everything they present to the outside world, even to their friends, may be fake.
Marriage is a scam, it was a scam to begin with. It was created for Men, by Men, to benefit Men. To entrap and enslave Women. There no real benefit to being married as a Woman unless the guy is super rich or he’s a truly good person (Most men aren’t good people tbh)
The narcissists operating a facade are the scary ones. Some are so obvious… but the sneaky ones are the scary ones. I bet he told her „I only have these problems with you and no one else. It’s you“
I assume that about 99% of scrotes are verbally abusive.
The shinier it looks on social media, the deeper the cracks.
Ugh. I’m sad that she will have to co-parent with a batterer. I hope she gets support from a women’s shelter or DV resources. He will make the divorce and post-divorce hell for her and those two babies. 😢