I was reading the Handbook and seing these celebrities comments on when they first saw their wife they just knew ! I was wondering really did you really know ! Coz it would be so scary for me to think a man knew I was the one just by looking at me first time . I totally agree with we should not take years and years be forever gf . But I do feel we women do have to navigate the line between love bombing and getting to know each other for a while to really know . That’s why I stopped reading celebrities and other ppl on platform talk about I just knew ! He or she was the one ! I cannot relate
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This is antedocal, but my experience has been that men are far less perceptive at guaging compatibility than women. They might be captivated by love (moreso appearance) at first sight, but that’s it. Once they’re infatuated they’ll try their hardest to project an image and traits onto you, and ignore anything that challenges that.
I find women are more observant, even if they find a man attractive they’ll sit back for a bit to observe their level of compatibility.