I'm a server in a big city, and I work with other women, but I really need an FDS-aligned friend.
The only women I know who are happy in their relationships at work are either gay or single. :/
My work bestie is absolutely miserable with her dude.
And since they work together, he thinks he can boss her around at work even.
Update though: the boss who was the reason I quit last year is now sandwiched between two bosses who fucking love and support me. ^^
Edit: even an email buddy would be cool asf, if anyone else here does waitressing.
STOP! This is a safety hazard. While it is great we have this community we are anonymous for a reason!
There are scrotes lurking who WILL try and dox you, so please stay safe and delete this. I understand it's hard to feel alone and not have HV friends to talk to in person, but this is not the way to find them!!!
>The only women I know who are happy in their relationships at work are either gay or single.
unsurprising
Have you tried introducing her to FDS. Plant the seed. I would also recommend sharing ceciliaregina275 tiktok videos with her. She's a great resource with a lot of fds aligned content. She's so logical in her breakdown of how men are socialized. I feel her content does start planting the seed for most women who watch it.
Also, I worked as a server for 3 years while in college. My only advice is to get out of the industry. Most of the people who work in that industry have demonic energy. You will absorb it. And it will change you. I made sure to never hang out with those people outside of work and avoided talking to them as much as possible. Everyone was sleeping with each other and cheating on their SOs. I worked in different restaurants/bars. most of them have low vibrational people like ex cons. I worked in both middle class and very elite establishments, they have the same issues.
Connect on Reddit? No.