Im giving being with a woman a chance, but even she is just so dead set on prioritizing males. I don't want to be the bad guy when I leave.

Someone down voted this lmao. Hit a nerve much 😏

I mean, it's worth giving it a try. Less violence.

Less cheating too, if it works out.

I'm asexual, btw.

Sexuality is fluid. It can change. You can lose attraction to a gender, gain attraction to something else, or become uninterested.

I'm aware of trans people and gender spectrum shit.

Sexuality is "fluid" only for bisexuals. Monosexuals are only attracted to one sex.

I don't think that's accurate.

I'm pretty sure it's broadly fluid, with some having harder preferences.

There are people who were straight for a long time, and then had preferences change.

The less fluid you are, the less your preferences change.

I did.

You just didn't read into it.

I don't want to feel like or be portrayed as the bad guy, and while I don't think I'm being the bad guy, that may be the way the situation gets portrayed.

I have a feeling a lot of you guys don't know how to handle dating other women.

No you didn't. I asked about you. Not her. Why do you prefer to stay in a bad situation?

Why is that better than being portrayed as the bad guy?

You asked for advice but then dismiss it?

I don't prefer to stay, but when she's saying she doesn't want to break up, it makes things harder. That's why I mentioned she wants me to stay. I don't PREFER something bad, but I put what others want into account.

Maybe I didn't hint hard enough, but her playing along like this makes me feel like she'll paint me as the bad guy if I end it.

I think she will, and I also think she will act like nothing's really wrong.

The point of this post is to get some insight on the best way to deal with the situation.

If you aren't stupid, then that's obvious.

You want to dump her, so dump her. You dont need our advice on that. Did you want advice on how to dump her without her getting upset? Well, nobody can advise on that, because it's impossible.

I might have to.

I actually haven't asked. I've mostly just observed.

She was super into it, but one of the red flags I noticed is that she was laughing because it'd make "everyone's dicks hard" if we dated.

I told her that's kind of what I'm not interested in, and she looked at me like I'm missing out. I've been married before, so I know I'm not missing out.