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I hate these males.
Not going to talk about Black women's hair or "attitudes" with a Black male ever EVER EVER EVERRRR.
Whatever they're trying to avoid in Black women, they will eventually find in me.
A woman helped shoo a guy away from me the other day, and I was telling her, I just don't get how they aren't embarrassed at the very first sign a woman is uncomfortable.
He tried with me until we were both calmly threatening him to leave.
She said it's because I'm "pretty."
Im not ugly, but I am NOT markedly more pretty than another White woman, and this Black woman actually looked like that model who was told to bleach her skin.
Black males hate Black women because they are a true authority over them. They COME FROM Black women. I don't think they want to be White. I think they want to be FEMALE and the original gender, so running away from their source of life and actual love, wisdom, power, is their best option.
I'm not falling for "Black women have attitudes."
The Black male hating the Black woman is sus asf.
Am I the only bw that doesn’t date bm? Definitely not saying non black men are always great. I’m just not attracted to them. I would feel guilty but they say all types of shit about us loud and proud so idec.
I agree that as a white woman any man going after or dating a white woman who isn't white is doing so bc he is INCREDIBLY racist, ultra insecure, and thinks being with a white woman will elevate him. No HV black/brown/yellow man is going after white women, just the creepy, LV kind that woc women would rather die alone then date.
My sister married a black man and their entire relationship was built off of stereotypes and racism, and now they try to act like everyone else is racist bc they're projecting. Example: My sister found out I wanted to paint my house blue, my favorite color, and that sent her into a nearly feral rant about how racist I was for DARING to paint my house my favorite color. The audacity!
The older I get the more I side eye any kind of interracial dating and marriage. It is NOT the best and brightest who go outside their race to date, but the wholly rejected, repulsive ones who latch onto those just as insecure and toxic as them. Like, my bil has gone on rants about how he was rejected by every single black woman growing up because he wasn't "black" enough and how he drank and drank and drank because of it. Like, I can't say black women are jealous of him now, either, as one of my sister's friends literally shared my bil's pic to other black women at her work and the girls all screamed in disgust. Mean, sure, but it kinda proves my point! He is hideous and undesirable to his own race, felt rejected, ultra insecure, and got with a white woman to "stick it to em." Meanwhile, my sister LOVES being contrarian and often does things out of spite and to make her family hate her. So what does she do? What my grandma would never approve of: marry a black man. 🙄 So lame. They also call me racist because I've stopped dating men outside my race, but the truth is NONE of the black/brown/yellow men were the hottest, smartest, classiest, nor more talented guys. Just like how it's always the nasty Ed-like white guys who seek out asian, black, and latino wives, it's the same for men of color. Just total rejects.
All this to say: there are exceptions. My Iranian friend and her Italian husband are very happy together and I know her to be HV so I trust her judgement. I think the dynamic shifts when there's an actual desire to deeply understand and respect the culture your partner comes from AND loving the culture you come from. It's still very hard tho and even they had their specific culture shock challenges to move through.
Cynthia g would love to read your post
I tend to feel that race isn't easily defined so I lean towards identifying what I like, both physically and culturally in a man.
Though a really cool guy is always my type.