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I was doing some thinking, and like, all of my "crushes" (actually me projecting qualities onto guys that they don't really have, because THEY were probably just thinking about porn and deepthroat), were qualities that were in ME.
Not them.
There was no magic dude who adored me, outside of me. I was that dude on the inside.
I want that back.
When I love myself, I find myself getting "crushes."
I AM the source of the love for myself more than some pornsick teen who turns into a rapist later could have been.
Does that make sense?
It 100% makes sense. I think a lot of us have projected our lovely qualities onto men. And I am so happy to hear that you are loving yourself. It’s so important that we put ourselves first
I had the same experience 🍻
I wanted a bf that would treat me like this and that. Looking back, that was how I treated my girl friends lmao. It was funny to realize that I was the Mr. Right all along.
I relate. I'm the one buying myself flowers and little treats on random days.