Give them a chance they say.

I was talking to someone that I met while I was running errands recently, we hit it off & started talking for a while until I couldn't anymore. This only lasted a month btw.

• He was a littleeeee too "nice"; Would send me messages throughout the day like "You are strong & brilliant, never give up on your dreams and have a beautiful day!" or "Remember to take breaks throughout the day! 😊" But it was consistent, like almost every day.

• Told me we have an incredible connection and is grateful to share all the experiences we have shared (Have only gone out on three dates & tries to have personal conversations through texts), how he has feelings for me even though we have only met a couple times & I clearly called him out for it, saw that I wasn't buying it and didn't seem to like it by trying to convince me otherwise

• Mentioned how he can put a roof over our heads, make sure I am well taken care of with any of my needs and wants...but we just met....?

• Has no friends and mentioned to me how I'm the only person he was hanging out with

• Wanted to FT almost every night

• Told me all of his ex-girlfriends name & his experiences with them (Never said anything positive); On top of that, supposedly I was one of the most beautiful woman he has dated (Physically and emotionally according to him) this made me feel like I was just his arm candy.

• If he ever said something stupid, to call him out for it? (What are you, fucking 8? This man is in his early 30's)

• Was ready to get into a serious relationship with me, meet my parents, etc.

• During one of our conversations, called one of his ex's friend a "damn fucking bitch"

• If I decided to end it, we could be friends but he would no longer pursue me and move on.....ok...BYE

  
  

  Nothing felt genuine. But there was something SO off about him, I just don't know what. I ended up blocking him because it was too much & yes, I never gave him my real number.

Lesson #4220302, if he's beyond "sweet and nice" ....

walk. the. fuck. away.