I'm getting a lot of "nice guy"(tm) shit from dudes who treated me as disposable as a human when I was fat now that ive lost weight.
Like, I wouldnt want to date a fat or obese guy, but I also wouldn't torture them.
Dudes who straight up treated me like I wasn't a person a few years ago are pretending that they're kind people, and they aren't.
I'm even getting OUR rhetoric from them; "fat women usually are going through something and deserve respect."
They think I'm fucking stupid. They're the same dudes who acted like I wasn't a person. I'm literally getting dms with like, a two year gap between "id hit that, with my car" to "hey gorgeous," and you can see the dates with no messages in between.
Men are fucking vile predators.
I'm just blocking, but I know they're playing victim, like I'm a stick up bitch for "victimizing" them.
They need to be in unnamed body bags from wars. Not pretending they can not fuck up the more important, less violent, smarter gender.
They aren't capable.
I'm the same goddamn person, and I'm only dating for love with other woman. Men are for money or status (if you cant get it yourself).