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Am I still going to meet you today?

Today I was supposed to have a date with someone I met through a mutual friend, we had made plans to meet for brunch on Sunday, texted here & there throughout the week but yesterday he was texting me asking me how he hopes I have a good day & that he was going to a Halloween party. But.......didn't even bother to ask me if we were still on for the next day.

20 minutes before our date he texted me if he was going to see me today still. Told him he had the entire day yesterday to confirm & didn't, so I made other plans (Spending time with my dog watching netflix). His Response? "Cuz we made plans for Sunday lol, but its cool lol" Blocked immediately.

I'm proud of myself because younger me I would've been the one to have asked him if we were still going to meet or would've said yes and rushed to get ready just to meet someone who lacks respect of my time. After being heart broken so many times for being too nice, it feels good to cut off someone who doesn't care instead of giving them a second chance.

You can only get me once 🥰

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Sara H

Oct 27

Queen👑 we as women collectively need to stop allowing males to get away with bottom barrel behaviour. No wonder why they are so entitled and obnoxious.

Unknown member

Oct 28

Texting someone 20 minutes beforehand to confirm is having a laugh. If he was serious about showing up, he'd have already left his house 20 minutes before the date in order to be sure of being on time. He sounds a right clown and I don't blame you for being turned off!

Also it sounds to me like this guy was deliberately texting so late in order to make OP feel like an after-thought, which is shitty and definately grounds for dumping.

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Unknown member

Oct 29

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I've had a scrote admit to me they do this sometimes on purpose. They make plans they have no intention of going on. Especially if it's made in advance. It's like negging , they want to put the woman down and show she's not important or that they aren't desperate. It's a way to get her to chase or become more desperate to meet up. They also do it to gauge how much you like them and if you are bothered about it or don't care.

They are fucking worthless and not even worth it honestly. Games. Games. Games.

Sometimes then are too lazy and figure they won't get laid so what's the point. They'd rather sit at home fantasising and beating their meat to porn, that way they don't have to leave the house. Lazy ass scrotes.

Scrotes love last minute plans on their terms. They hate feeling or anticipating and feeling they have to go. They also lazy so they have to find the motivation.

Unknown member

Oct 28

Well done on blocking and deleting. You saved yourself from a scrote.

shewhowrites

Oct 28

Any man who uses LOL, especially adult men, is a big no.

Unknown member

Oct 28

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Any grown woman who uses LOL is a big no as well. We have quite a few FDSers on this forum who exhibit this moronic habit.

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Unknown member

Oct 29

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Another one is "hi". These scrotes get more immature day by day. I view hi as a very immature way to say hello. They are too lazy to type hey. Years ago I dont recall scrotes saying "hi" all the time but now they do, must be a redpill or pua tactic cause it's something I've noticed they all do tmnow.

Unknown member

Oct 29

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Women we go through too much, we are allowed to use lol. Male scrotes have a duty to impress us as their male existence is questionable. They need to curate themselves. Not us. Women don't need yet another thing to curate ourselves on or stress about. Men do.

Unknown member

Oct 29

I've had scrotes do this many times. They make plans and then don't confirm or only last minute. Yet if you do that it's the end of the world. They are hypocrites.

It's repulsive. Especially I am someone i need to prepare myself mentally to meet a scrote. And last minute date plans are to benefit the male and his physche. It doesn't benefit women.

I need notice and reassurance and to feel comfortable. Last minute dates feel horrible. And it does show a lack of respect. They assume you have nothing else going on in your life. Or nothing better to do.

Sara H

Oct 29

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What is wrong with males today? I genuinely the lack of testosterone is concerning. Being in a relationship with a male is like being in a relationship with an inept child. This is the conclusion I’ve come to

LeaveBritneyAlone

Oct 28

Wow, he's such a fucking clown 🤡

Am I still going to meet you today?

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