Is there a link for the handbook? I've searched the website but can't seem to find it. I remember viewing it on Reddit back in the day. Thanks!

What do you think of men who go on 'guys only' trips and vacations - including stag weekends to other countries? Would you accept this in a partner or would this be a dealbreaker for you? Could it be considered "too controlling" to insist that a partner doesn't go on any trips such as this?

Background: I'm in my late 30s. When I was growing up, people still talked on the phone, and texting was not used widely. If a man called, say, on Monday to ask for a date on Saturday, and you both agreed on a time and location, then there was no need to confirm the date the day before or the day of

I thought in the introduction of the new podcast host - I heard there were three new queens. But recently - I think I’ve just been hearing two host on the new episodes. Did the 3rd host drop off. I remember she was from Israel but was leaving the country if I’m not mistaken and I appreciated her i

And it works. My most recent sex partner was nice to my face after sex - probably because I specifically told him before we had sex that men getting weird with me after is why I'm celibate. So, instead, I found out he was telling all his friends I'm a "fat whore." Dude is not in my league, and w

TW: CSA I come from a very wealthy family. On the face of it, my family is perfect. Everyone believes my father is a feminist. A very supportive father. What they don’t know is that my father is a narcissist and a pedophile. He sexually abused me for years till I told my mum. Then it stopped. He va

I was reading the Handbook and seing these celebrities comments on when they first saw their wife they just knew ! I was wondering really did you really know ! Coz it would be so scary for me to think a man knew I was the one just by looking at me first time . I totally agree with we should not take

I’ve looked through past posts and it looks like the old discord is gone. I’m not sure if I’m verified on this site but I was verified on Reddit. I’d love to have a group of like minded women to talk to. If there’s interest I can look into creating a server. I saw from another comment by Astria that

I am in my 30s and matched with an age-appropriate man on OLD yesterday. How long should I wait for him to message me for the first time? If he hasn’t messaged me within three days, should I unmatch? Sorry if people have posted different versions of this question on this forum. Thanks in advanc

I've heard this claim, on and off, throughout my adult life. Have you observed this to be true, in general? I would love to hear about your experiences. Disclaimer: not all married women, of course.

I never thought I'd ever need to worry about an arranged marriage but my grandma's friends want to set me up with their son and I didn't have the heart to tell her no. I probably won't get picked because they likely want someone who can speak our native language and cook Indian food and I can't do e

Really enjoyed this week's podcast, thought the trial host was really good and the topic was interesting and very FDS strategy ❤️

I'm curious if there is a live group chat for FDS users anywhere? I see that there is a Members Chat option on here, but it's not something I've utilized. Is there a Discord server or anywhere else where people chat or vent about everyday things and make connections?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=MpKy4SYwuA0&t=5s My main takeaway is that MOST women have mr. Imaginary good guy in our heads. This guy don't actually exist. They all watch deepthroat porn and think we're not really people. We had to march in streets just to vote. Men are going to lose this red

I'm getting a lot of "nice guy"(tm) shit from dudes who treated me as disposable as a human when I was fat now that ive lost weight. Like, I wouldnt want to date a fat or obese guy, but I also wouldn't torture them. Dudes who straight up treated me like I wasn't a person a few years ago are pret

I have WIX and am here via wix, however earlier I went straight to thefemaledatingstrategy.com using my Chrome as its my usual for all other. There was FDS and with it two advertisements. The ads were very much opposite of FDS content. Not sure if I can or should post the screenshots I took. I als

Recently, I have observed a pattern, where guys tend to suggest going to trips to meet for the first occasion among my friend group. A friend recently told me that a guy she has been talking to (online) is suggesting her a trip. A while back, there was another scrote I was talking to and he sugge

Today I was supposed to have a date with someone I met through a mutual friend, we had made plans to meet for brunch on Sunday, texted here & there throughout the week but yesterday he was texting me asking me how he hopes I have a good day & that he was going to a Halloween party. But.......didn't

" Feminist" "Neurodiversity" ""Free Palestine". In my opinion, men stating these things in their profiles are the worst predators. Wolves in sheep's clothing. Abusers. Cheaters. My "feminist" ex would rally with Extinction Rebellion against Climate Change. He also heatbutted his nine year old son,

Shows like Hells Kitchen, Survivor, Bad Girls Club, etc, are actually all super patriarchal, unnecessary stress-machine shows. They placate the masses by normalizes hoop-jumping capitalism male culture. I couldn't put my finger on why I didn't like them when I was younger, but can you imagine go

I’ve been “assigned” to a new dentist recently. To put it bluntly, he gives me the fucking creeps, but I have no idea why. Because he gives me the creeps, I’ve scrutinized his behavior, and there is absolutely nothing I can point to that seems unprofessional. All of his physical actions have bee

This picture is not from his OLD profile. I found this picture on his work-related social media. So it is very public. The ring is on his left hand, since the picture is a mirror selfie. For Americans, ring on left ring finger definitely means wedding ring. But he is European, and I know Europe

What are some subtle red or yellow flags when it comes to a man's personal finances? I’m looking less for obvious signs (e.g., he's broke, he's cheap) and more for signs that a layperson wouldn't necessarily notice. I am not a finance/accounting expert and would love to hear your thoughts, especial

He’s a part-time Rolfer and full-time history professor. Academics in my city are not highly compensated, so I imagine he Rolfs for the additional income and because he enjoys it. I'll add that most professors (including tenured faculty) in my city have some sort of side hustle because they don'

My friend has been married for almost a decade to a seemingly HV man. He has many HV traits: works hard, supports her and their child financially, attends to her and their child at all times, seems like an excellent dad, has a graduate degree and a solid job, does not look at other women or triangul

Just wondering what the FDS consensus is? My best friend (closer to a sister than my actual sister) got engaged to a man she met 4 months previously. She tends to have a pretty FDS-adjacent view of things, and he seems alright for now. On the one hand, she knew what she wanted and he was very cle

Thanks to Netflix, I'm finally able to watch Sex and the City. It's been on for the majority of my life, however this is the first time I've ever watched it. I haven't written anything on here in over a year, but Steve has forced my hand. Miranda, a successful 30 odd woman, lives and works in Man

So, recap, i tried to date a woman more platonically and romantically than sexually. She insisted she was as done with men as me. (And this is where you guys need a warning if you want to date women, we can ALSO be lecherous if we're pickmes) Turned out, she was just trying to make her ex and guy

A dude thinks taking me out on a date tonight means he can text over and over and demand I call him? Nope. Cancel. I cook a nice meal for myself. Dude wants to buy me a phone just to call him when I said I don't call men at work? Keep your phone. I don't need a harassment device. If they think

I know a lot of women who try to date women complain about shit that men would complain about, but I think our actual problems are different. So, she called me her girlfriend and said we were dating, but brought her exes over. Then broke up with me. I'm not saying it's useless to try to date wom