Already told on himself in that intro. See where it goes is code for not looking for anything serious. “Not up for someone looking to be chased etc” Already admitting he’s not going to put any effort/low effort. Smh
Looks like a recently dumped, bitter scrote who has nothing to add to any woman's life but still wants the princess treatment. Gross. At least he told on himself I guess?
At first I read it as HE doesn't need to be chased/impressed etc. and thought, well, that's not so bad, but then I read correctly – instant nope. Like others said, this intro is code for "I don't want to put in any effort whatsoever but still expect you to have sex with me"
It's because you posted this on reddit: the scrote hellhole. Bumble is unfortunately full of scrotes like this, women message first, so women put the effort in here, right? I had more luck channeling a raccoon on Tinder: looking cute while digging through piles of trash. But men did the chasing and took me on nice dates.
omfg I love how you compared Tinder to channeling a raccoon. " looking cute while digging through piles of trash, but the men did the chasing and took me on nice dates"
Honestly I highly recommend just leaving Reddit altogether. Doesn't it gross you out that most of the comments and posts you read on that site are likely to agree with your downvoters/detractors from this thread, even if you're not in a dating-related sub? Why would you want to read the opinions of or spend time among these types of men?
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When he says concerts, pop up shows etc he’s meaning that the woman needs to organise it all! He won’t put in no effort but these things need effort to organise. Baffling!
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He's not just low effort, he's broke. "Consultant at healthcare" = some really ambiguous "entrepreneur" job without a stable income. He wants to keep it "low key" to go on really cheap dates.
Not surprised to find a guy like this on bumble. That's where the feminine essence men are, the men who want us to pursue them.
I know some of us FDS like to use Bumble but I wouldn't. With Tinder you have to wade through a lot of trash but at the least it allows the men to do the pursuing. Hinge Is the best app in my opinion, I've met the most high quality men and gone on the best dates with this app.
WTF are these comments. The guy saying we want to be spoiled by money and attention and validation. Well NO SHIT SHERLOCK OF COURSE WE WANT ATTENTION AND VALIDATION. And as for money, we want you to be able to provide for a family and put a good effort in to make us happy and not be stingy with gifts. Like why would you date a girl if you resent giving her attention and validation? Would you rather be with a girl who wants you to ignore and mistreat her?? What do these guys think people do in a relationship with one another? Ignore each other so as to avoid using each other for attention and validation?
These guys are soooo dumb. Why would you want to be with a girl who doesn’t want your attention? Would you rather be with a girl who ignores you all day and shudders with resentment every time you compliment her?
Men honestly think that we should line up to date them like they're the stallion of the ranch when most of the time we're indifferent to them like they're one of the many geldings.
It's not the worst profile in the world but it's a next for sure. Someone checked out enough to mention it on his profile will be 100x more checked out irl.
I found it very confusing. Sounds like that person needs some time to actually understand what they want. Completely lacks clarity. I might swipe right but I'll be very very very skeptical.
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He knows exactly what he wants, he's not some confused poor soul. Don't give these scrotes the benefit of the doubt.
My experience is that when guys say they don't like women who want to be chased, they're expecting you to chase them, so they can treat you like sh**
Nothing turns me off more than a guy who expects me to chase him, man up
Already told on himself in that intro. See where it goes is code for not looking for anything serious. “Not up for someone looking to be chased etc” Already admitting he’s not going to put any effort/low effort. Smh
"Dating is terrible and app dating is even worse" and that's because of lazy broke user scrotes like you being in those dating apps.
Looks like a recently dumped, bitter scrote who has nothing to add to any woman's life but still wants the princess treatment. Gross. At least he told on himself I guess?
At first I read it as HE doesn't need to be chased/impressed etc. and thought, well, that's not so bad, but then I read correctly – instant nope. Like others said, this intro is code for "I don't want to put in any effort whatsoever but still expect you to have sex with me"
It's because you posted this on reddit: the scrote hellhole. Bumble is unfortunately full of scrotes like this, women message first, so women put the effort in here, right? I had more luck channeling a raccoon on Tinder: looking cute while digging through piles of trash. But men did the chasing and took me on nice dates.
When he says concerts, pop up shows etc he’s meaning that the woman needs to organise it all! He won’t put in no effort but these things need effort to organise. Baffling!
He's not just low effort, he's broke. "Consultant at healthcare" = some really ambiguous "entrepreneur" job without a stable income. He wants to keep it "low key" to go on really cheap dates.
Not surprised to find a guy like this on bumble. That's where the feminine essence men are, the men who want us to pursue them.
I know some of us FDS like to use Bumble but I wouldn't. With Tinder you have to wade through a lot of trash but at the least it allows the men to do the pursuing. Hinge Is the best app in my opinion, I've met the most high quality men and gone on the best dates with this app.
Little does he know that he's part of the problem
WTF are these comments. The guy saying we want to be spoiled by money and attention and validation. Well NO SHIT SHERLOCK OF COURSE WE WANT ATTENTION AND VALIDATION. And as for money, we want you to be able to provide for a family and put a good effort in to make us happy and not be stingy with gifts. Like why would you date a girl if you resent giving her attention and validation? Would you rather be with a girl who wants you to ignore and mistreat her?? What do these guys think people do in a relationship with one another? Ignore each other so as to avoid using each other for attention and validation?
I'll take bitter and jaded for 100 Alex 🤣
I'm getting downvoted to hell on reddit with my responses.
Men honestly think that we should line up to date them like they're the stallion of the ranch when most of the time we're indifferent to them like they're one of the many geldings.
I got a notification from reddit because I told a guy to fuck off in one of the comments
Because Reddit is a cesspool
I agreed with until I saw it was posted by a male on a dating app. Great advice for single women who can date themselves
LO MF L!!!!!!
It's not the worst profile in the world but it's a next for sure. Someone checked out enough to mention it on his profile will be 100x more checked out irl.
I found it very confusing. Sounds like that person needs some time to actually understand what they want. Completely lacks clarity. I might swipe right but I'll be very very very skeptical.