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I think our devices know what we think even before I say it, because on FB, I am getting Reels that show men (actors) who are exactly my type, face-wise. I don't want to throw away someone just because they may not be my face-type (well, I probably would anyway because face or not, they're probably a scrote), and I know we can't get everything we want in life but...sigh.
The men in the Reels are scrotes or exceedingly likely that they're scrotes, but I'm just being "shallow" (I hate using that term because it's a derogatory term that scrotes use against women for wanting to be visual) at the moment. They tend to have dark brown hair and blue eyes and good facial structure. I'm getting Reels of men such as Alain Delon, Seth Edeen, Noah Fearnly, Henry Cavill, etc. I'm not debating the scrotery of the men right now - I can't emphasize enough, so I don't want to make it a discussion of that per se, please.
I know, it's popular to say "dark hair dark eyes" and all that jazz and I don't disparage anyone whose actual preference is that - do your thing but I've had this thing as long as I can remember, and I wonder if I should bother entertaining the idea of another face-type if my heart is with a different type. I'm probably too old to worry about the hair color part since men are greying by this time but anyway.
I can't believe I'm even asking this question, almost. I'm struggling with more loneliness than normal because my dad (he has scrote characteristics but still he's my dad) is temporarily in a nursing home, and I'm all by myself at home for the first time, and it's something that I'm not used to. It makes me rethink my singleness all of a sudden. 😥
Yes. I don't want to date an ugly man.
I live alone and I love it. Once you have had to clean up after a scrote nonstop and had to listen to him bitch about everything you do, you'll LOVE living alone. I put up a Christmas tree because I love christmas and I know my ex would have lost it.
Honestly sometimes I’ve dated men I thought were my type or were extremely attactive to me. Sometimes it went well. But sometimes, after going on dates and getting to know them, I found them more and more repulsive.
On the flip side, when I’ve dates people who aren’t my “usual” type but still attractive, sometimes it went well and the more I got to know them the more attractive they became.
I think you should base your type more on people you meet irl and have actual dates with. Some men on these apps portray themselves much differently than they are in real life.
But if you are not attracted to them, don’t settle for them or entertain them.
You should listen to the audiobook The Art of Invisibility.
It explains how everything from our internet providers to phones know a lot more about us than we think.
Aww hang in there! Sending you an your family lots of love.
To clarify what I said previously, there are men who I thought were attractive online and meeting them made me realize I wasn’t actually very attracted. I imagine the same with celebrities I find attractive. Face to face is what matters most for me for attractiveness.
But yes I would rather be alone than stuck with someone I did not experience attraction to
Yes, it matters. The face card is very important to me. I'm a visual creature lol 🤭.
yes
Simply put:
If I do not like a man's face, I would not date, fuck, or marry him.
Yes - physically attraction matters to me period.
I won’t get into the details of it, because I do agree that sometimes your type changes or whatever but the bottom line is I can’t be with someone I don’t find attractive.
Of course we would rather be alone than settle on our standards. This is FDS and the foundation of the whole system.