I think our devices know what we think even before I say it, because on FB, I am getting Reels that show men (actors) who are exactly my type, face-wise. I don't want to throw away someone just because they may not be my face-type (well, I probably would anyway because face or not, they're probably a scrote), and I know we can't get everything we want in life but...sigh.
The men in the Reels are scrotes or exceedingly likely that they're scrotes, but I'm just being "shallow" (I hate using that term because it's a derogatory term that scrotes use against women for wanting to be visual) at the moment. They tend to have dark brown hair and blue eyes and good facial structure. I'm getting Reels of men such as Alain Delon, Seth Edeen, Noah Fearnly, Henry Cavill, etc. I'm not debating the scrotery of the men right now - I can't emphasize enough, so I don't want to make it a discussion of that per se, please.
I know, it's popular to say "dark hair dark eyes" and all that jazz and I don't disparage anyone whose actual preference is that - do your thing but I've had this thing as long as I can remember, and I wonder if I should bother entertaining the idea of another face-type if my heart is with a different type. I'm probably too old to worry about the hair color part since men are greying by this time but anyway.
I can't believe I'm even asking this question, almost. I'm struggling with more loneliness than normal because my dad (he has scrote characteristics but still he's my dad) is temporarily in a nursing home, and I'm all by myself at home for the first time, and it's something that I'm not used to. It makes me rethink my singleness all of a sudden. 😥
Of course we would rather be alone than settle on our standards. This is FDS and the foundation of the whole system.