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A few days ago, a male friend asked if he could hang out with me just like old times. I said sure, but also asked if his wife was coming with him. He immediately was taken back, and he said he’d get back to me. It’s been 3 days, and he hasn’t gotten back lol guess his wife said no.
I was hoping this would happen, because I don’t hang out with married men unless accompanied by their wife.
I think it's not appropriate for him to ask you that, and I commend you for being respectful to the wife when making your decision.
Absolutely not. I don’t hangout with married men without their wives present. In fact, I blocked most married men from social media to protect myself from any drama.
NOPE! I avoid married/taken men. At the end of the day a man is a man, and they’re almost always going to have those intrusive thoughts- the sleazy ones give into it. I also avoid them out of respect for their partner, I wouldnt want my man hanging out with another woman.
I would have declined as well.
In general, it’s not appropriate for a married man to spend recreational time alone with a woman who is not his wife.
People with hvm fathers never saw them with any female friends growing up. Never saw my father have a single female friend but he was respected by many men he didn't need to get simp supply from them.
Alone. No. I actually avoid married men as much as I can. They are endlessly awkward around women who are not their wife. Literally I will just talk to some of them after teaching a Yoga class, and they swear I'm hitting on them. Like no sir, I am just seeing if you enjoyed class. Mmkay.
LMAO you called his bluff! Block his number. Your male "friend" (who would totally have sex with you btw) can't hang out with you "just like old times" because he's married now. He can't have his cake and eat it too. He got married, which probably elevated HIS life and status immensely, but he still wants to hang out with a single woman?? Teh audacity! NAH SIS. Ditch him.
Story time! I had to end a friendship with a guy because of a situation a bit like this. This guy obviously used to have a crush on me (I noticed the signs) but got married with someone else. Fine, I thought I'd basically never see him again and I was fine with that. But then he started asking me to "hang out". His wife - a sweet, meek, quiet woman - was always with us so I didn't think anything of it. Then they had a child. Wonderful, I went to meet the little guy a few times. After a while his wife got pregnant again. During one of these hangouts the wife wasn't feeling well, so she went to lie down upstairs and little man went to sleep. I kept waiting for the wife to come downstairs the rest of the evening but she never came, and it felt SO WEIRD and wrong. I watched a movie with the guy, he ordered pizza and everything, it felt like a date. It was awful, I felt horrible. This was pre FDS so I didn't want to make a scene or rock the boat. Not long after that I blocked him, because I'm no entertainer for married men! And neither are you! Stay strong, stay queen.
Nope. If the married man is not a family member, and there wasn't a death in the family, then no way. Even if somebody did die, there's no reason for us to "hang out".
it would depend on his vibe. if i get suspicious vibes from him, def no. if he is a long time friend who has never showed any romantic or sexual interest in me, then maybe. i prefer to have his wife with us and be friends with her. like, be a friend of the couple, not just the man. i just tend to avoid men as much as i can.