Single women over thirty really come into themselves and their power and are harder to control. Single men over thirty are a drain on their families and society. The patriarchy needs women to take care of men so attacks that which challenges it, namely being a single woman.
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THIS! Everything is our responsibility to men! If women are single it’s actually society’s failing as technically it means people’s sons aren’t good enough, so if a boomer acts this way, it might be their upset about how their son isn’t good enough.
Partly it's based off a very old mentality that people need to marry and pop out kids and keep society going before they croak at like age 40, and it's partly patriarchal social conditioning that likes to slap girls/young women over the head with a husband, children, and a household before she knows what hit her and is less of a threat politically, socially, and economically. Young women are more malleable and easier to control, especially if you lock her in a serious relationship early in her life so she's more focused on the man and children than developing herself.
Misogyny. Males fear of being lonely projecting onto women. The ideology that women's life only fulfilled if she settles down with a family. The list is huge
This. Men actually age faster than women and hit the wall at lightning speed with their decaying yellow teeth, unhygienic smell, old degenerate sperm, receding hairlines, pot bellies, and ED. And they convince themselves that they are still attractive to younger women because "hurr durr George Clooney and Brad Pitt can still get the hottest women."
News flash scrote, you are not them and your delusion knows no bounds. I noticed old men LOVE riding off the accomplishments of older men in Hollywood and taking credit from other men. Its the same way when they say "men invented everything." Scrote what did YOU invent?? And yet they consider themselves the more "rational" sex??
These days I do think it's becoming more common knowledge amongst women that single men past 30 probably have something wrong with them. Like, usually women will only date them if they seem to have a plausible reason for being single (e.g. just graduating from med school, working some super high powered career etc.). Most sane women would avoid a 30 year old man who works at like a bar or something.
Of course sometimes these men take advantage of age gap relationships with younger women who don't know better, but I don't actually think this type of relationship is that prevalent. Maybe I'm being optimistic.
You just know that mom basically pushed your friend into marriage and she's likely relenting on a bunch of stupid bullshit her husband does because of it. If she gets a divorce, it's largely her mom's fault.
I do think because the dating market is so different for men than women, I can see why women would settle down later even independent of a job (it's just hard finding a moderately decent male partner). It's piss easy finding a fantastic woman partner, though, so a man who hasn't settled down with one by 30 had better have a good reason (i.e. something career-related).
My friend is Indian and got divorced from her first husband earlier in the year, which btw took several months. She lives in New York and he lived in London. She always went over there to see him but he never put in the same effort. He wanted her to move to London. Plus, his parents are both narcissists and his mom would complain that she wouldn't call often enough 🙄. Even when my friend got COVID, she still complained. Finally my friend broke it off and wanted a divorce. It took several months because he kept asking for a second chance. His own dad even showed up to her house and said his son was doing terrible and a bunch of other bs. After she finally got the divorce from him, she just wanted to be single. That didn't last too long because there is a guy she's known for 10 years. Her aunt mentioned to him that she just got out of a relationship (he doesn't know she was actually married) and to try and contact her. He liked her for a very long time and wanted her. She was not interested in another relationship so soon. But he was relentless and her parents told her to get to know him and see where it goes. She ended up liking him and a couple of months later was engaged again. She said he's very different from her ex and can actually be herself around him. With her ex because of the time difference, she had to arrange her schedule around him. When we would hang out, she would take videos of where we were because he wanted to know where she was. She is happier with the new husband. I've met him and he seems like a good guy, so let's see what happens.
My mom was 39 before she got married to my dad and she would have waited longer and been happy single all her life if she didn't meet my dad. She had me at 41 and my brother at 43. Now my father is very HV and although not perfect owns up to his mistakes, cooks and cleans, has made her very happy, is eager to spend money on her, offers emotional support, and has stuck by her battling stage 4 breast cancer and chemotherapy. But if he were to walk away right now she would be perfectly content.
She has advised me to stay single and never ever settle until the right man comes along. What's the point of dealing with a man who adds nothing of value to your life? 99 percent of men are scrotes and you should ruthlessly vet.
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Single women over thirty really come into themselves and their power and are harder to control. Single men over thirty are a drain on their families and society. The patriarchy needs women to take care of men so attacks that which challenges it, namely being a single woman.
Partly it's based off a very old mentality that people need to marry and pop out kids and keep society going before they croak at like age 40, and it's partly patriarchal social conditioning that likes to slap girls/young women over the head with a husband, children, and a household before she knows what hit her and is less of a threat politically, socially, and economically. Young women are more malleable and easier to control, especially if you lock her in a serious relationship early in her life so she's more focused on the man and children than developing herself.
Misogyny. Males fear of being lonely projecting onto women. The ideology that women's life only fulfilled if she settles down with a family. The list is huge
These days I do think it's becoming more common knowledge amongst women that single men past 30 probably have something wrong with them. Like, usually women will only date them if they seem to have a plausible reason for being single (e.g. just graduating from med school, working some super high powered career etc.). Most sane women would avoid a 30 year old man who works at like a bar or something.
Of course sometimes these men take advantage of age gap relationships with younger women who don't know better, but I don't actually think this type of relationship is that prevalent. Maybe I'm being optimistic.