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I am 23 and some guys my age in my area have a dad bod and are already balding. They have girlfriends but I am chronically single. I tried dating and 5 men told me that they would like a woman with curves and they rejected me over it (I am skinny with no curves). They were quite mean about it, one of them even told me he can't get intimate with me and function cause his ex had very big breasts and butt.
I was talking with some acquaintances today about this who have a similar body type and one of them has had random men harassing her while she was minding her bussiness shopping or eating in public, telling her she is flat and has an ugly body.
They tell you they like women with big breasts and big butts, you tell them you like men with big dicks and big wallets.
they talk shit about a woman for being skinny and flat, talk shit about them for having a skinny dick with a flat wallet.
You’re being single has nothing to do with your body and everything to do with the fact that most men are degenerate arseholes. Don’t give your time to men like the ones you describe here.
These types of men are the same types who will tell "curvy" women that they need to lose weight. I am also thin and small-chested and have been made to feel ashamed by men when I was around your age as well. It doesn't mean you are not worthy of love or that you are not attractive. Back in the 90s your body type was considered "ideal" and womens' body standards arenconstantly changing in the media. But the media isn't the real world. Everyone has insecurities, and everyone has an idea of what they find attractive. Men who verbalize their preferences are not worth an ounce of your time. They have been brainwashed by porn and will never be happy with any real woman's body along with the changes it will go through over time.
Studies have shown that the more importance a man puts on breast size, the less his annual income. I'd look at your situation this way: You were born with natural scrote-repellant. It may seem like a curse to you but it is truly a blessing.
My guess is you are dating men that are too low on the pay scale to appreciate your body. Time for you to be more selective in who you date.
Women are pressured to settle for less, just look at all the women who have standards, they are told they will die alone with cats, they will be miserable because a career is nothing without a man.
I got guilty tripped too and chose men that would make my skin crawl right now. Women need to be the best version of themselves and be available as a housekeeper on demand for men. But men just have to be nice.
But when I point out a man that I want I'm told I'm unrealistic.
Women are discouraged to date within their caliber or beyond but men are encouraged not to date a woman who is just as useless as them.
How many times have you been told to give that loser over there a chance?
Don't take it personal and more women are waking up, male loneliness is on the rise and they can't stop it, I personally believe only the rich or affluent men who are mentally and physicall healthy are allowed to start families with women.
Well you don't want a balding dad bod right?
Some women don't care and they just want a bf, so they'll take what they can get.
It's like when people say
"No one on my 600lbs life is single"
Which is true! And sometimes I hear it said as a joke, but you don't want what they have.
Who cares if your skinny ? Men are attracted to different features and different body types.
You don't want a bf at your age anyway. I wasted so much time on worthless men when it really is such a fun age. Go out have fun and establish yourself.
Big breasts and huge butt. Single af. They tell big women to lose weight. They'll find something wrong with you in an effort to get you to lower your standards. Men aren't worth it. Those women settled.
Be glad you're naturally on the thinner side. You will age well because of this, and you'll be like the ugly duckling who turns into a swan in your 30s and 40s when gravity hits those curvy girls. You don't need to worry about males anyway. They're nothing but distractions who take from us and give nothing back. Just make you some goals in life, and you'll get there faster alone. Men will only slow you down.