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I tried posting this on Reddit but got eviscerated, whether by conservative men ripping me apart "you stupid feminists wanted equality hahaha" combined with people saying "oh my God you thought the pull-out method was safe, I knew that in fourth grade"
To be clear, I had a Florida public school education. The academics were great but the sex ed was very mediocre, a grainy video in the fifth grade of a woman giving birth and that's it. I did learn about the vas deferens in anatomy class
Basically long story short I had a boyfriend who seemed great at first, pulled out car doors, planned and paid for dates, cooked me lots of dinners and was very affectionate. In fact, I really liked him because he seemed simple, steady. He was even a male nurse. He only wore condom the first time we had sex and that's because I absolutely insisted on it
He didn't even have good arguments, he basically would just reassure me that I'm not going to get pregnant when I would cry about my anxiety when we would do pull out sex. In retrospect I was making bad decisions and got an IUD today. But I can't help but feel like maybe I just wasn't convincing enough, which is false because I repeatedly confronted him, or maybe he didn't respect me because I didn't force him to wear condoms. But I honestly don't respect him if I have to force him and walk away.
Do these men just not give a s*** about disease or pregnancy?
No, they don't give a shit about pregnancy or disease if it doesn't happen to them.
They aren't actually "nice". He doesn't respect you in the slightest or he'd have worn them, no questions asked, each and every time.
It's all about maximizing their pleasure at your expense.
Stop having sex with these males. Get a sex toy and you'll have peace of mind.