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As the question states, why do they do this? You have men who had a mother that abandoned them or chose men over them. Some men had a woman that cheated on them or rejected them. These experiences make them bitter but instead of getting revenge on the women that hurt them, they go out of their way to hurt every other woman they come across.
Does anyone have any insight as to why this happens? It's something that I'm very curious about.
Because they see women as a monolith, and they’re incredibly fucking dumb, by and large. That’s my best guess anyway, I’m sure someone else can provide a bit more nuanced take.
Lol I have a male relative who is still to this day mad at a cheerleader who rejected him meanly. He was over 300 pounds in the 1970s. (Very uncommon. He stuck out like a sore thumb.) So he was quite literally the ugliest guy in school, asking out the hottest girl in school. The cheerleader who all 200 male students lusted after. She said "I wouldn't date you if you were the last man on earth."
Instead of being mad at the guys who encouraged him to ask her out, for a laugh, he is still to this day mad at her. I explained to him that she was so out of his league that him asking her out is an insult, in and of itself.
I asked him why he didn't ask out a big girl? Surely there was at least one? His response: "Oh hell no." Lol he didn't even hesitate to answer. He couldn't see his own dick for a decade but wouldn't dare date an even slightly overweight girl.
BeCaUsE oF hEr I NeVeR AsKeD oUt wOmEn. 🙄
The simple answer is because they can. 🤷 Nobody will hold them accountable. Accountability is for women and female children.
Because they are an emotional and irrational gender
Because they're fucking losers who like to project and seek revenge on random innocent women.
Because the problem is not that they got hurt, it's the mysogyny. In fact, if a man feels the need to tell me he was hurt by women, I immediately suspect it's actually the other way round.
They feel all women think and act the same. They look at you and think ‘how many great guys did you make feel like shit, by turning your nose up or laughing when they approached, or cheated on them, or took all their money in divorce, etc’. They assume every woman has a rap sheet of broken hearts behind them.
Because they hate women. PERIOD. Rational, empathetic human beings do not think this way.
They don't. They hurt women because of misogyny. Lundy Bancroft talks about this in Why Does He Do That, in the chapter about myths about abusive men.
Sounds like an excuse. Men tend to be way more spolied and emotionally fragile...Imagine walking in the street or anywhere like a man, not being threatened whatsoever, not bothered... wish we could run the world instead
Women aren't individuals to men. The first guy who ever asked me out was an 18 year old player who had a Crack fiend whore for a mother. He then proceeded to f*ck as many girls as he could. He even told me he went to church on purpose where the good girls were, so they'd think he was a good guy, then he'd f*ck them and dump them. There's a psychosis in males that society has never discussed or admitted to. And men never get mad at other men for using and abusing women. They're never mad at their father for abandoning their mother. They see the women as the only culprit.
Men in general are like those mentally unstable supervillains in comics, " Oh you hurt me, Oh you rejected me I will take revenge on your whole kind REEEEEE" Because they got hurt they feel entitled to cause harm upon others. I've been used, gaslit, disrespected, taken advantage of, taken for granted, Taunted, bullied, manipulated, lied to by men but am I going to take revenge on every man who treats me with respect? No, I might be straight forward with them and let them know I'm not in the mood for their bullshit, And I've made a very clear rule that as soon as disrespect is served, I will never speak to him again. A lot of men feel that they are walking on egg shells and any comment or joke can make me snap contact with them without giving them a chance to explain themselves, and in my opinion that's all men deserve.
When a woman is hurt by a man, or a series of men, everyone will say "pick better", because they view men as individuals. When a man who is hurt by a woman HE CHOSE, she becomes All Women's spokesperson and representative, and he's allowed to wallow and blame everyone else but his own lack of vetting and discernment. It's ironic because men choose by extremely shallow and stupid reasons, primarily selecting for looks and status. I believe it's more projection by men. Incels literally have a whole ideology built around it, that women are mindlessly seeking and fucking Chad, when we all know their standards don't screen for character, values, and all that stuff we have to watch out for. And even then, many males will go to great lengths to lie and manipulate, even just plain omission ("good guy" who won't tell you he doesn't see a future with you but keeps stringing you along anyway! My personal bugbear), to keep his access to sex with women going. Anyway, I think that's basically the definition of privilege - the ability to blame and scapegoat the "lesser" group for your own poor choices and never being held accountable for your actions (also see Rape Culture). I think it's safe to say that this all falls apart when you hear from those actually engaged in researching and interacting with abuse dynamics, because you'll learn that male entitlement and domination is a huge issue, and you can't "just tell" which men hold these beliefs. Women are more cooperative and deferential, at least they're assumed to be, so men think they can just pick whatever woman as they're all just about the same thing outside of aesthetics. And if you fail to perform to expectations, you'll end up like Amber Heard, regardless of the bullshit the scrote engaged in. Their own misogyny is their downfall, but again they're never held to account. Must be nice!
Men don't need an excuse to hurt women.
From what I have read is because usually they need that person to be the scapegoat for their feelings. This is even common with murderers, if the person that "made them this way" is gone and they still feel the same they will have to accept that its their responsibility to help themselves now and its on them If they dont want to change. They are so emotionally weak that they cant do that. So they take it out on women who remind them of either the woman who hurt them or whoever made the think women aint shit. This can obviously go both ways but men do this by FAR more than women. Its not even comparable.
Men want to punish and hate women even with no prior bad experience with women. Or they tell u they got hurt by women and they'll insert a fake sob story. Dont believe men because they always lie.
Often, I don't think these men have been genuinely "hurt" by women---how could they? we know how frequently we'll bend over backwards for them, shrink ourselves and keep silent lest they feel an ounce of discomfort---I think most of them are full of it and just want a excuse to treat you poorly.
OR they've justified their behavior to themselves because some woman, somewhere, may have mistreated a man and you might do the same thing, or have done. Therefore, you are guilty and deserving of punishment (ex. the Amber Heard effect), and they don't need to be good to you.
Well, as a woman I feel
like I want to do this to men now after what the last 2 put me through I mean, I don’t think I actually can but damn do I WANT to! What does that mean? Am I LV? I’m trying NOT to be. This pickme inside is putting up a FIGHT, lol!