Why do men cheat down?

At FDS we don't really think a woman's attractiveness equates to her worth.

They cheat because they're low value and they don't value the woman they are with.

They also don't value their partner as a person.

Men who cheat are trash LVM and if their wives are accomplished/beautiful they probably feel emasculated and threatened. They probably feel like cheating on her with a random woman is 'getting back' at her for being better than him. It's a form of control that comes from an insecure, rotten place in LVM. The LVM probably look to cheat with women they don't see as people and think they are better than. They recognise that they themselves are trash and unworthy of their wives. Perhaps the woman they want to cheat with is uneducated, in a bad financial situation etc. It's easier for them to manipulate these women and they can feel like they have more control over her because they see her as controllable. They want someone who can't walk away from their abuse and can be an outlet for their manlet rage and sick pornified fantasies.

At the same time, they use the wife as a trophy to show off in front of their 'bros'. LVM love to impress other men. Both the wife and mistress get nothing good out of this relationship with the LVM.

Because their current wife was the best they could get, and all their only other options are LVW. But they don't really want to admit their wife is that much better than them (because misogyny), so they do this to "put her in her place." It's kinda like a power move, except not, because the man has sex with some coked out LVW and then his hot, accomplished wife divorces him and cleans him out and tells his kids how trash he is when they're older so they don't want to associate with him...and he dies alone in a nursing home. The End.

Men assume that conventionally unattractive women are easier to seduce because they can manipulate their presumed low self esteem and loneliness, and what matters to the man is sexual availability, not the woman as an individual.

Coz only lvw will want to be a mistress .

Men cheat with less attractive women many times, because that woman has lower self esteem in the 1st place. His wife will be beautiful, and he can wreck her self esteem and lower the mistress' self esteem at the same time. It's a win-win for his ego. Plus, a beautiful woman has more "value" in the dating market, so she doesn't have to put up with a cheater. The last guy who asked me out in NYC was a married mobster (I didn't know either of these things before the date), but when he tried to make our 2nd date at my place to drop off some dick, I said "no" and started looking into his background. He had an average looking wife at home who knows he cheats on her. She gets to be the SAHM, and he gets to cheat. She takes this deal, because she loves him but also because she believes she can't do any better. So either way men are winning (in their minds). Make an ugly woman your wife, and you can cheat because she's gonna think she can't do any better. Make a beautiful woman your wife and cheat with the less attractive women so that you can have variety. The less attractive women are more likely to accept less from a man and to put up with being the other woman. It's all just bad behavior and lack of honor either way they do it.

I don’t think we should put other women down for their looks. Scroutes encourage us to compete with each other because it benefits them. They WANT us to be insecure and divided. It feeds their ego. I’ve seen women/teen girls get into physical fights over scroute’s and the male witnesses pointed, laughed, sexualized the situation and recorded it.

When you get cheated on and fixate on the other woman’s appearance it diverts your anger away from the cheating scroute’s degenerate/abusive behaviors. It also gives you a craving for validation/makes you more likely to consider taking him back. Just don’t do that it doesn’t benefit you at all...

(The the other woman a lot of the time has no idea the scroute was married/had a gf because cheating scroute’s lie/manipulate. These women are being victimized in the situation as well)

If anything the women should team up against him by blocking/deleting him and warning any other women about him.

Even if the other woman was a pick me or had malicious intent just say to yourself “If someone else can take my man I don’t want him. He’ll cheat on her too. He’s not going to suddenly become high value just because he’s with her.” Then just ghost him.

If its possible, make it so he never knows why you left. Live your life as if nothing happened. That will eat away at him. He’ll constantly wonder why you left and he’ll be wondering if you found out he cheated. Ignore him if you accidentally run into him. Act like you don’t know him. Level up and work on yourself. Treat yourself and raise your standards even more.

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“Its flattering knowing men desire me, but then I remember a man would also have sex with a McChicken so I don’t let it go to my head” -Adriana Lima

I asked an LVM this question once.

His response: "Variety."