I'm glad there's more awareness about this. I too used to think that having sore arms after giving a man a handjob was just a fact of life or due to lack of muscle. Today I know it's a symptom of porn overuse and excessive masturbation (and I'm happy to say my current partner isn't like this at all, he's actually told me not to grip it so hard lol)
I had a boyfriend after my divorce 16 years ago who’d been circumcised wrong and had DGS from porn. It was a very unfortunate situation. He was this handsome, tall, blond from California who’s dick was curved to the left b/c of the botched circumcision, and it would not get hard. Plus, it was really small, and he was a porn addict (didn’t know this was a thing back then). He blamed all of this on me even though every other girl had cheated on him except me. He‘d make comments like “throwing a hot dog down a hallway” and that I’d “f*cked a guy with a big dick and that’s why you don’t like me.” Keep in mind he was the 3rd guy I’d ever been with, and I’d not had sex in 5 years when we met. Stupid me at the time told him that I loved him and to just see a doctor to see what could be done. Never again. When you encounter one of these porn addled men, RUN. Whenever you hear a man complaining about how big other girl’s vaginas are, just know that it’s his porn grip and erectile dysfunction that’s making him think that way. Nothing feels tight when he’s not hard. You’d think they’d realize that they’d desensitized themselves and stop jerking off, but it’s their MO to blame women for everything. SMH.
Women are out there getting vaginoplasties, and freaking fillers in their vaginas to feel tighter “rejuvenated” and we are all reminded to do kegels but like, NO VAGINA CAN EVER FEEL LIKE A MANS DEATHGRIP WTF It’s so scary. I almost don’t ever want sex again because of this. And I had a traumatic vagina birth with forceps and a third degree tear, so I’m sensitive to this bullshit- the complaints about looseness and this new death grip phenomena taking over society.
Men's obsession with vaginal tightness literally makes me sick. The things women are supposed to do to ensure a tight "grip" ... If that's so important, why not settle for handjobs? But no, of course they also want the feeling of entering a sensitive orifice. Not to mention all the worrying about tightness distracts women from their own pleasure.
2. MEN’S EGOS TAKE A HIT.Men with death grip syndrome may be in denial of the condition. Or, they might believe it’s happening because they’re falling short in some way or doing something wrong. Either way, not being able to enjoy “normal” sex with a partner can be depressing and isolating, and they may begin suffering from poor self-confidence as a result. They might also feel that their masculinity is being compromised.
4. MEN WITH DGS MAY ONLY WANT ROUGH OR AGGRESSIVE SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS.Because the penis lacks sensation, men with DGS may seek rough or aggressive sex. This may be uncomfortable for their partners if they don’t enjoy this approach. This can cause discord in relationships and lead to a complete end to intimacy.
I've met a man whose death grip made him "resort to" sleeping with men. I put that in quotations because he wasn't happy with his situation? Like he was definitely both sexist and homophobic(and rude and passive aggressive in our very brief exchange) and clearly blamed women and gays for his woes, but not necessarily porn even though that's ground zero. He was mad that women wouldn't do the butt stuff from porn, and thus "forcing" him to sleep with men. He was also mad at homosexual men for consenting and "making" him bisexual/gay. Pretty sure he's going to get overtly violent one day. This man was a white collar decent job/looks/education/upbringing. He tugged his weenie too much to hate and rape and created this weird monster.
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I believe there is evidence many serial killers were into porn? I think Ted Bundy might be one. But they never mention this fact in most documentaries about these violent, monstrous men.
Ted Bundy: “I’ve lived in prison for a long time now, and I’ve met a lot of men who were motivated to commit violence just like me, and without exception, every one of them was…deeply influenced and consumed by an addiction to pornography.”
Man oh man, all those encounters I had with an ex where I was shamed for not wanting to be jackhammered every time, and given every excuse in the book except for the true one, “I’m watching too much porn and gripping too tightly”. It never occurred to me at the time that it had anything to do with it. Of course, he knew, because he was the one spending solo time with his penis….but my pleasure was never worth him owning up to facts so we could actually have a mutually fulfilling sex life. I can only hope his wife now is more sexually demanding than I was and forced him to get it sorted, because when I was with him? The idea of a lifetime of the sex we were having filled me with dread. Women in their 20s now have SO much more information at their fingertips than I did in the mid-aughts. I’m delighted when they actually take advantage of the knowledge and benefit from it….dismayed when they do not.
Men are literally breaking their dicks these days. Why isn’t there a public campaign saying “ease up on the masturbating, fellas.”
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There probably will be soon. Like health class for boys will go over this. Hopefully saving their dicks will be more important than beating off to hardcore pornography daily. It is a public health epidemic. 8 year old boys are watching this shit. I’m so glad I don’t have to worry about raising a kid today. I tell everyone I know, don’t let your kids have a smart phone, etc.
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I have looked up Peyronie’s disease on quite a few sites and nowhere does the word masturbation appear under Causes. Always vigorous sex, injury during sex, blah, blah . And NEVER is pornography mentioned. I believe this is so men can once again blame women for their flaws. “You did this to me.” Their fragile egos can’t even bring themselves to discuss the root cause (jerking off frequently to porn); even in a medical publication!
We should print out this article and have it at the ready for future reference.
Not surprising at all. Isn’t this just porn induced erectile disfunction (PIED). Men have watched so much porn they are now needing a cucumber shoved up their arse in order to climax. Scrotes - just leave your dick alone. Fuck sake.
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I'm glad there's more awareness about this. I too used to think that having sore arms after giving a man a handjob was just a fact of life or due to lack of muscle. Today I know it's a symptom of porn overuse and excessive masturbation (and I'm happy to say my current partner isn't like this at all, he's actually told me not to grip it so hard lol)
I had a boyfriend after my divorce 16 years ago who’d been circumcised wrong and had DGS from porn. It was a very unfortunate situation. He was this handsome, tall, blond from California who’s dick was curved to the left b/c of the botched circumcision, and it would not get hard. Plus, it was really small, and he was a porn addict (didn’t know this was a thing back then). He blamed all of this on me even though every other girl had cheated on him except me. He‘d make comments like “throwing a hot dog down a hallway” and that I’d “f*cked a guy with a big dick and that’s why you don’t like me.” Keep in mind he was the 3rd guy I’d ever been with, and I’d not had sex in 5 years when we met. Stupid me at the time told him that I loved him and to just see a doctor to see what could be done. Never again. When you encounter one of these porn addled men, RUN. Whenever you hear a man complaining about how big other girl’s vaginas are, just know that it’s his porn grip and erectile dysfunction that’s making him think that way. Nothing feels tight when he’s not hard. You’d think they’d realize that they’d desensitized themselves and stop jerking off, but it’s their MO to blame women for everything. SMH.
2. MEN’S EGOS TAKE A HIT.Men with death grip syndrome may be in denial of the condition. Or, they might believe it’s happening because they’re falling short in some way or doing something wrong. Either way, not being able to enjoy “normal” sex with a partner can be depressing and isolating, and they may begin suffering from poor self-confidence as a result. They might also feel that their masculinity is being compromised.
4. MEN WITH DGS MAY ONLY WANT ROUGH OR AGGRESSIVE SEXUAL ENCOUNTERS.Because the penis lacks sensation, men with DGS may seek rough or aggressive sex. This may be uncomfortable for their partners if they don’t enjoy this approach. This can cause discord in relationships and lead to a complete end to intimacy.
I've met a man whose death grip made him "resort to" sleeping with men. I put that in quotations because he wasn't happy with his situation? Like he was definitely both sexist and homophobic(and rude and passive aggressive in our very brief exchange) and clearly blamed women and gays for his woes, but not necessarily porn even though that's ground zero. He was mad that women wouldn't do the butt stuff from porn, and thus "forcing" him to sleep with men. He was also mad at homosexual men for consenting and "making" him bisexual/gay. Pretty sure he's going to get overtly violent one day. This man was a white collar decent job/looks/education/upbringing. He tugged his weenie too much to hate and rape and created this weird monster.
Man oh man, all those encounters I had with an ex where I was shamed for not wanting to be jackhammered every time, and given every excuse in the book except for the true one, “I’m watching too much porn and gripping too tightly”. It never occurred to me at the time that it had anything to do with it. Of course, he knew, because he was the one spending solo time with his penis….but my pleasure was never worth him owning up to facts so we could actually have a mutually fulfilling sex life. I can only hope his wife now is more sexually demanding than I was and forced him to get it sorted, because when I was with him? The idea of a lifetime of the sex we were having filled me with dread. Women in their 20s now have SO much more information at their fingertips than I did in the mid-aughts. I’m delighted when they actually take advantage of the knowledge and benefit from it….dismayed when they do not.
Men are literally breaking their dicks these days. Why isn’t there a public campaign saying “ease up on the masturbating, fellas.”
I have looked up Peyronie’s disease on quite a few sites and nowhere does the word masturbation appear under Causes. Always vigorous sex, injury during sex, blah, blah . And NEVER is pornography mentioned. I believe this is so men can once again blame women for their flaws. “You did this to me.” Their fragile egos can’t even bring themselves to discuss the root cause (jerking off frequently to porn); even in a medical publication!
We should print out this article and have it at the ready for future reference.
Not surprising at all. Isn’t this just porn induced erectile disfunction (PIED). Men have watched so much porn they are now needing a cucumber shoved up their arse in order to climax. Scrotes - just leave your dick alone. Fuck sake.