I've always been treated bad because of my looks (by both, men and women), so I know I'm fairly unattractive. I used to have a group of friends that were more attractive than me, but I stopped hanging out with them because I felt very indacuate with how shallow they were (they treated me different for being shy and ugly), and with the places they went (places full of shallow men and women, such as clubs, bars, etc.).
My current social circle is different, with, mostly, unattractive people. They're nerds, like me, so I feel more happy with them, but I've realized that unattractive men and women are just shallow as their attractive counterparts. I don't care that much about looks. I used to when I fell under a femcel hellhole, but now I don't care much about them, mostly, because it doesn't make any sense to focus on something like that. It's something that cannot be easily changed, unless someone spend a lot of money into it (I'm talking about facial beauty).
I'd like to meet a man who isn't shallow and who wouldn't mind dating someone below-average in the face. I don't really mind if he's below-average, too.
I didn't even care about looks before people started calling me ugly, which was when I got into lookism. I'm autistic, and that topic never mattered to me.
Hun, there is no such thing as an undesirable woman. Females are resources to males. The best way to meet a man who will respect you is to stick to your standards. Figure out how you want to be treated, figure out what your boundaries are, and strictly enforce them. And don't chase men! Don't worry about what these dumb fuck males want. What do YOU want? FDS is about leveling up yourself, while decentering males. Right now you are too focused on males. Getting males, what males think of you, how to attract males, how to look better for males. STOP THIS. YOU need to focus on YOU.
I’m autistic and attractive, but my looks haven’t helped me to secure a good partner. Sometimes the target on an attractive woman is larger as we face animosity from men we reject and women who envy us. Yes, I get the cute and quirky comment, but I’m seen more as a silly fun thing than as a real, equal woman.
I was like you when I was younger, and what it got me was used and taken advantage of. MEN AREN'T SPECIAL. Don't come across so desperate and willing to please, these men will play tf out of you. You need to just focus on yourself right now, and maybe focus more on making female friends.
This sounds like a male troll post.
Work on yourself. Get in shape, Focus on your appearance and with that you weed out the trash. In this world a woman gets treated well when she's beautiful or takes crap from nobody.