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Growing up it was always a choice to date or not to date, have a bf or don't have a bf. (I know it still is, no one can force anyone to date) but it's increasingly becoming men / society in general blaming women for the state of the world? Oh the world is crumbling because the single wahmen that doesn't want to be bothered with men is secretly pining for ThunderChad but it's really just I don't want to be bothered by men?
It's like my choice to be childfree, I grew up being drilled into my head that being a parent is awful. My parents were horrible people I don't think they had issues with the kids because they could neglect and forget us, they were having a blast. At school, being a parent is the worst thing that can happen and I agree. I personally told myself in my head I wasn't going to date until I was older because at home was very misogynistic and hated women having a bf. It was seen as a chore, a job, you have to cook and clean for a bf like it 's a pet. I do not want a pet.
But as a grown woman, now we see people blaming CF and women with no kids plummeting the birth rates but it's not OUR responsibility to owe the world a kid. It's simply been a choice not to pop a kid out into this world. And it just so happens millions of other women experienced the same or closely the same things I did that came to this conclusion.
So why is dating no longer seen as a choice but rather a stance to blame women for the current state of the world? Especially men going crazy they don't have a dating life.
It’s because women are increasingly realizing that most men genuinely have nothing to offer them. I truly believe it’s natural selection taking place: the male loneliness epidemic, incels, red pill dorks. And because women are sharing stories with each other about how lazy and incompetent their husbands are, as well as how they see men talking about women online, women are choosing to stay single because of this. It’s a multitude of reasons. Before, if some women wanted to stay single, it was fine, but women’s growing independence, education, and higher earning potential are making it difficult for them to find suitable partners. Men are frustrated; they need women way more than women need men. They benefit from marriage and relationships far more than women do. The internet has allowed women to see men’s nature on a mass scale—crime rates, antisocial behavior, and the diabolical things they say online. Women are starting to opt out. Women don’t benefit from being in close proximity to men. It’s funny how men used to talk about the good ol’ ball and chain when describing relationships with women, but now they want to cry about loneliness. Fuck that. Women don’t owe these XY creatures anything. These creatures deserve a sad lonely miserable death.
We have only been allowed to leave relationships or not really be married in the last 50 years since being allowed into the workforce....
Men still think they can act those ancient ways and be abusive and useless and that we need to still coddle them. Well shiver me timbers, turns out we don't need to put up with this shit since we are now allowed to make our own money outside of men... but! Men haven't wanted to change since this started. Okay, but you'll be left in the dust? They still think they are owed since we quite literally depended on them for survival and to be able to buy food and eat.....
Welp, those days are over. Never underestimate how truly important it is that we can earn our own money now. I am the first woman in my whole family line who didn't need to marry to be able to eat... I think most of us here are too. This is THE time period where that's really coming to fruition. My mom did excellent with money and becoming a broker, but she had already popped out a bunch of kids with my dad, so she was still very tied down. Men would rather fake a male loneliness epidemic than up their game to be able to stick with us. They are acting lazy and totally incompetent. And as always, the blame goes on women (as it does for everything, if you'll notice...).
Too bad, so sad. I'm sure every abused and mistreated female ancestor of mine is rooting me on and can't believe I have the choice to just be single if I'm not being treated right.
It truly is a gift and I intend to live it up to its full extent until a scrote proves to me that he is worth it.
Short answer: Biological creature carrying out its biological program.
Deep dive answer:
They've been blaming everything on women since they invented Adam and Eve and probably quite long leading up to that, so why would they stop now that the threat of their own extinction is staring them right in the face? It's just an old rusty tool in their little toolbox.
Hear me when I say this: All males but especially males with no access to higher thought or purpose are slaves to their biology which screams to every cell in them: propagate this rapidly decaying Y chromosome strain or die (KILL?!) trying. Everything else revolves around this task. Taking it away from them is literal violence because it IS an existential threat in their paradigm. If that sounds extreme or dramatic, just look at the wild animals from whence the Y chromosome came.
Do they not routinely go against what you would assume is the most primary biological desire, to survive, and rather risk getting torn to shreds by other males, for even potential access to pussy? Yet strangely, these animals having no earthly idea of what a "birth rate" is, compulsively risk it all to mate again, and again, and again. These men recieving the same agressive genetic instructions simply want to do it like they do on the discovery channel, but will backwards reason their ass off to appear civilized and rational while often genuinely believing their own bullshit.
As the most important thing for males in life, not just men, males have a developed a whole arsenal of mating strategies rotated and recycled since before the first creature ever slid out of the primordial ocean. And that arsenal ranges from brute force to the most subtle (or not so subtle in this case) emotional manipulation.
They claim this is about the importance of birth rates but try a fun experiment to observe this backwards reasoning fall apart: 1a) Ask these same men if they are as concerned about climate change, forever chemicals, nuclear war, or total economic and/or biospheric collapse affecting the birth rates.1b) in the unlikely event they express genuine concern, take note of how many times in the past years they have they discussed those issues in depth with friends/family/ on a podcast, in forums, or on social media unprompted. 2) Ask them why plummeting birth rates are bad. The answer is likely to fall into one of the following categories; a) sky daddy b) the highly irrational assumption that anything less than 8 billion people is guaranteed human extinction or c) it will have to do with the money system, economies, supply chain, basically nothing whatsoever about actual life and living, and everything to do with being enough fucking cogs in a whacked out crazy world to continue uninterrupted.
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