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Growing up it was always a choice to date or not to date, have a bf or don't have a bf. (I know it still is, no one can force anyone to date) but it's increasingly becoming men / society in general blaming women for the state of the world? Oh the world is crumbling because the single wahmen that doesn't want to be bothered with men is secretly pining for ThunderChad but it's really just I don't want to be bothered by men?
It's like my choice to be childfree, I grew up being drilled into my head that being a parent is awful. My parents were horrible people I don't think they had issues with the kids because they could neglect and forget us, they were having a blast. At school, being a parent is the worst thing that can happen and I agree. I personally told myself in my head I wasn't going to date until I was older because at home was very misogynistic and hated women having a bf. It was seen as a chore, a job, you have to cook and clean for a bf like it 's a pet. I do not want a pet.
But as a grown woman, now we see people blaming CF and women with no kids plummeting the birth rates but it's not OUR responsibility to owe the world a kid. It's simply been a choice not to pop a kid out into this world. And it just so happens millions of other women experienced the same or closely the same things I did that came to this conclusion.
So why is dating no longer seen as a choice but rather a stance to blame women for the current state of the world? Especially men going crazy they don't have a dating life.
It’s because women are increasingly realizing that most men genuinely have nothing to offer them. I truly believe it’s natural selection taking place: the male loneliness epidemic, incels, red pill dorks. And because women are sharing stories with each other about how lazy and incompetent their husbands are, as well as how they see men talking about women online, women are choosing to stay single because of this. It’s a multitude of reasons. Before, if some women wanted to stay single, it was fine, but women’s growing independence, education, and higher earning potential are making it difficult for them to find suitable partners. Men are frustrated; they need women way more than women need men. They benefit from marriage and relationships far more than women do. The internet has allowed women to see men’s nature on a mass scale—crime rates, antisocial behavior, and the diabolical things they say online. Women are starting to opt out. Women don’t benefit from being in close proximity to men. It’s funny how men used to talk about the good ol’ ball and chain when describing relationships with women, but now they want to cry about loneliness. Fuck that. Women don’t owe these XY creatures anything. These creatures deserve a sad lonely miserable death.
We have only been allowed to leave relationships or not really be married in the last 50 years since being allowed into the workforce....
Men still think they can act those ancient ways and be abusive and useless and that we need to still coddle them. Well shiver me timbers, turns out we don't need to put up with this shit since we are now allowed to make our own money outside of men... but! Men haven't wanted to change since this started. Okay, but you'll be left in the dust? They still think they are owed since we quite literally depended on them for survival and to be able to buy food and eat.....
Welp, those days are over. Never underestimate how truly important it is that we can earn our own money now. I am the first woman in my whole family line who didn't need to marry to be able to eat... I think most of us here are too. This is THE time period where that's really coming to fruition. My mom did excellent with money and becoming a broker, but she had already popped out a bunch of kids with my dad, so she was still very tied down. Men would rather fake a male loneliness epidemic than up their game to be able to stick with us. They are acting lazy and totally incompetent. And as always, the blame goes on women (as it does for everything, if you'll notice...).
Too bad, so sad. I'm sure every abused and mistreated female ancestor of mine is rooting me on and can't believe I have the choice to just be single if I'm not being treated right.
It truly is a gift and I intend to live it up to its full extent until a scrote proves to me that he is worth it.