IMO they're OLD and going to bars. LVM love going to these places as they can easily have flings with women with no strings attached. Some men also sexually assault women they've met on OLD or at bars. Matchmakers are also awful but at least I've never heard of a woman being sexually assaulted by a man she met via a matchmaker.
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Definitely OLD in my opinion. A good quality man is going to be snatched up in the real life dating market before he ever hits the virtual one.
Only ever have wasted my time and have been traumatized by garbage on OLD and thankfully I don't and can't even drink so I don't bother with bars or clubs anyway. Only met LV people there too
I wouldn't do shit or go somewhere unsafe to attract some man anyway. They can come find you themselves and you want to decenter them anyway
Dating apps definitely. They'll wear a mask for months just to get in your pants, once I tell them I'm not into sex it's like they transform into a gremlin and stop putting effort in. It's a great vetting tool for me lmao. Scrotes here are trash.
One of my former male acquaintances told his sister:
Don't meet men in bars, and don't meet men in Christian fellowship.
I think it's sound advice.
Re: bars
There was a bartender that would spike women's drinks for his clients. He did it even to a whole group of women going out together! They only got away because they had a designated driver that wasn't drinking and when everybody started feeling sick she drove them away to safety!
It was in Olympia, Washington if I remember correctly
Cult, jail, rehab, AA, doing hours volunteering ordered by court, shelter
I would assume not something women on this forum would ever consider, that includes ex cult members, drug addicts, etc