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This is more or a vent lmao and it goes into my own issues (i'm sorry!) My older sister's friend was dating a guy and discussing having kids because they are both 40+ but he was cheating on her by texting girls my age. They broke up and he dated someone my age and then even they broke up lol. Now he's single and following girls who some even just turned 18. Seriously, you don't want to get married and don't want kids and just expect to date a bunch of girls in their 20s. That feels so bleak and empty to me and you're wasting their youth or your own time.
I'm in my twenties and I am attracted to older guys but also don't want to give them the satisfaction of having me. Also I am talking about hot successful 50 year old men not your average 50 year old walking down the street.
Or maybe I'm the last person on Earth who actually wants to fall in love with someone!
I could have casual sex but I know at the end of the day it feels kind of sad. Love exists and it's still out there.
Quoting the movie Closer (2004) WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO TO GET A BIT OF INTIMACY AROUND HERE
Watch out. If a woman is 50 and unmarried she is a force, a widow or both. If a man is 50 and unmarried there is most likely a bumbling avoidant path to get there. They are just like obnoxious 20 year old fuck boy scrotes but less fun and can't get it up past 10:30pm. We already know he is not a HVM because he is chasing young girls because he is emotionally immature. As well as young girls tend to be cheaper and easier to trick because of youthful female hopium (that they knowingly take advantage of). Every HVM in shows, movies and real life I've seen wants a woman his own age or older as he has nothing in common with young, energetic party girls barely out of high school. And keep in mind a man's taste is supposed to change with age and grow with him, if it doesn't he is a stunted creep. I have seen men say, "The only one who has a problem with a young girl with an old guy is middle age Karens.". Think about that, he is too dumb to link it but you are not. You will be that Karen one day and you will try to tell women to avoid gross old fucks because they are pathetic, a waste of time, are taking advantage of our youth and don't deserve access to any woman. And no one will listen, because scrotes and Pick Me's will say you are just jealous of young women (For what? Touching wrinkly losers before you have to?? Lol). I am 43 and my man is HV and 31. I touched an old man ball or two in my time because I was craving maturity. They are NOT more mature, they just cash in on our daddy issues and are sneakier about how they pump and dump. Once you go wrinkly old ballsack, you WILL go back lol. If you don't, he will make your mind up for you once his next target graduates high school.
We live in a pedophile culture, and this guy is the product.
‘Hot and successful 50 year old men’ 😂 These men aren’t single!!! This is complete fantasy. FDS is opposed to big age gaps and there are very good reasons for it. Please read the handbook and start looking for men your own age.
Here’s my answer to your question: who cares.
Stop trying to make sense of depraved creepy male behaviour and invest that time instead on focusing on your level up journey.
Women (and younger women like you) assume men mature the same way women do. Many don't. A lot of them kick and scream until they can twist peoples' arms into saying they're just like who they were when they were younger. Men date younger women for a few reason: -Younger women (and younger people in general) are kind of hot, no wrinkles, less baggage, etc
-Younger women are pliable
-Dating younger women makes him feel young again A 40 or 50 year old who is capable of genuine love for women won't be out fucking the basic equivalent of children. He'll want someone more relatable. And when the young woman ages past 25, he'll start negging her too. Don't forget that part. You're young enough to find an actual love story.