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I think I naturally repel avoidant men and any other 'go with the flow' men because I'm very straight to the point about what my needs and boundaries are, and I expect plans in advance and commitment and not to just "play it by ear".
Men that are looking for a mommy therapist get turned off when they try to trauma dump and I tell them to look for professional help.
Stingy men usually get turned off immediately when they realise how high maintenance I am and I put effort and money into clothes, technology, my career etc.
Basically any men that are looking for a woman with low self esteem and get initimidated by any form of success.
Among other types, I weed out possessive, jealous men—the kind that texts you 50 times an hour or calls you constantly to keep tabs on you. I don't know why, but I never seem to cross paths with them. I suspect there's something about my personality that turns them off.
Cheap men. I almost always have my hair blown out and nails done, my clothing is always pressed, shoes always polished. When you look put together, they see dollar signs. The cheap ones run for the hills.
Broke men. I’ve had many say they can’t afford me 🤣
Any man who is unable to have even a simple conversation about feelings (romantic or otherwise) or is unable to display even the most basic of emotional intelligence or consideration for other people is a hard pass for me.
Hard pass also tor lack of manners and lack of effort.
Boring ones. The moment I stop entertaining them, they're gone.
I absolutely shred fake nice guys who want to use me, but pretend they're nice. Cuz I can just call them out.
Male supremacists and the redpillers who want to legalize rape and other shit like that take me down pretty quick though.
I'm too pro-society to throw other woman under the bus, and can't go one-on-one with them physically, and they know that.
Apparently men don't like that in educated and dress well. Broke men and possessive men run for the hills.
I weed out predators and cowards. I recently went out with a similarly attractive girlfriend and men had no problem approaching her because she humored them and was tipsy and lonely. She told me multiple times that "there are so many guys macking on you right now" because they were all watching me dance and trying to meet my eyes or find an opening but I didn't like anyone there and wanted to just hang out with my friend and her neighbors. I think something in the look I give when pressed or uncomfortable if someone I don't want to does approach me makes everything in them recoil.
I won't divulge the type of men I'm weak to but your typical lecherous creeps tend to keep away from me naturally.
I have resting bitch face. That should tell you something lol.
This isn't intentional on my part but I dress conservatively and I am softly spoken so men often put me in the "tradwife" box. (Just to be clear, I am no tradwife). However, the one advantage of this is that men who are only looking for sex tend to leave me alone, for the most part.
Lazy men. More often than not it's painfully obvious I am at work (even when I'm not I'm dressed like I'm headed to or from, and more than likely wearing steel toe boots or driving a heavy truck). I have been told by male acquaintances in the past that I don't get asked out because they can look at me and see that weekends will be spent fixing or building things around my farm, not relaxing.
Men who want to use me as their therapist. I have a habit of saying things like 'I'm not the person to help you through that' or 'you really should see a professional about that' and walking away when they come to me with their bullshit problems. I get labeled as bitchy but I really don't care. I already have a full-time job, I ain't babysitting a grown-ass man.
Cheap men. When they see me drop money, they get a little nervous. The ones that think they can handle me, usually go and buy an whole new outfit just to see me.