Hi queens! One of my best friends is leveling up in the realm of men and finally leaving a scrote (yay!!). She is an amazing woman and, partly due to how much of a good person she is, she is having a hard time in the dating sphere. I think the FDS mindset could really help her, and she is interested. What episodes where the most eye-opening to you? Which ones would you recommend someone to start with? I'm making her a Spotify playlist with my favorites, but it is getting way to long, and I want to make sure she is hooked! 😄✨
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It’s a bonus episode from the podcast “the truth about butt sex”
From the regular podcast: the episode with Lundy Bancroft and the “Gift of Fear”
My personal favorites:
- Don't Fall for Homosexual Sob Stories
- The 25 Tactics of Male Power
- FDS Job Search Lessons
-37 Truths You Should Have Been Told About Men, Part 1-4
I think all 4 episodes gives a pretty eye-opening, realistic portrayal of how the average guy operates. If you're putting yourself out there and dating, it's pretty much a lifesaver. She's gonna spot problematic behaviour right away and dodge many a bullet.
-Double Standards Against Men That Are Completely Justified
Again, multiple reasons are shared why the concept of fairness as we generally believe it to be is not applicable since we live in a systemically patriarchal world. Kind of the equitable vs. equal debate. It helps realize one's bargaining power and assert it in real life dating scenarios.
-The Tactics of Male Power, Part 1 and 2
Good episodes to listen for an insight into the male psyche and to avoid manipulation.
-Mythbusting the High Value Man
A general outline on what it means to be high-value.
-Listener Stories: Divorced and Child-free By Choice
An uplifting and feel-good episode that it's possible to leave LVMs and scrote and thrive on your own as well as possibly finding a healthy relationship with a better partner
Good luck to your friend!
Gail Dines episode!
The episodes with Lundy Bancroft and Gail Dines.
The “jUsT CoMmunIcATe” episode lol. A lightbulb went off in my brain and it made me realize how much time I’ve wasted trying to communicate with men, when no amount of whinging or pleading changes a GD thing and the more effective “communication” is withdrawing your presence from their life.
The "communication dynamics" one or the "Scrotation" one.
i really like the first two episodes, Introduction to FDS and FAQs About Feminism, Double Standards, Men Who Are Still Friends With An Ex. they're relatively rough and uncut, but the ladies posit excellent arguments and sound like they're having a blast!