What does it mean when you chatting with a guy on old for 9 days and he hast asked you for your no?

Women think they can only be used for sex but it goes much deeper than that. We can be used for attention, ego boost, emotional labor, entertainment, money, physical labor, as therapists etc. He is probably using you for at least four of those. Don't bother participating in the "talking" phase, it is in reality the "waste your damn time from the toilet" phase.

Move on

Means you’ve been chatting on OLD with an unavailable guy for way too long. Block and delete.

i think he's waiting for you to ask for his number. Don't ask yourself what he means, what he wants, what he's waiting for. Think about what you want, see if that's what he's giving you. If the answer is 'yes', you keep invested; if the answer is 'no', forget about him.

The other comments here are 100% correct most of the time but I have found that *sometimes*, the reason they’re delaying asking you out is this: They either don’t look like their photos or they’re very socially awkward or creepy in person. These men get the “Sorry, didn’t feel a connection” message after every first date. A lot of men think that if they manage to build a connection with you over texting (impossible) that you will overlook how disappointed you are with them when you finally meet and maybe for once they will get a second date.

This has happened to me several times. I wasted weeks of my time texting, he FINALLY asked me out, and then the second I meet him I think “OH! So THAT’S why you were so hesitant to let me meet you.”

There’s never a good reason for a man to delay asking you for an actual date, or at least a phone call. After 3-5 days of nothing but texting I unmatch now.