After finding FDS, I realized a lot of her love songs have Pickme lyrics. Then it got me thinking....
We of course also know that jay Z cheated. I was reading other people's opinions on wether she should have stayed or leave, their opinions on why she stayed, and some people said that Beyonce just isn't the same anymore after the infidelity (a shell of her old self, not happy) . People also criticized her because after the infidelity she had more children with him. Some people also supported Beyonce , talking about how they have a lot of businesses together so she stayed to avoid all that business mess.
(These are all comments I have read on YouTube and Instagram by the way)
I want to know what FDS users think.
Bonus question: do you think he still strays from the marriage? Like this isn't the first time and this won't be the last time?
I think her staying with him is a weird type of martyrdom. Her music got WORSE after Lemonade and Jay Z has always looked like he's just been run over idk why she fixated on chasing him down in the first place 🙄
If Jay was my man and I saw this pic of how Lil Kim and him are touching hands for the photo, I would be pissed. Sorry but that is too intimate for me to be comfortable with. Call me crazy, jealous, controling, say I'm reaching, or whatever but this wouldn't fly with me.
Absolutely no fucking way he isn't cheating. He's a rich and famous man with an ego and lots and lots of options. He did it once and got away with it. He knows his reputation won't suffer. He has no reason to stop now.
I luckily don't care and neither should you.
I think the vaaaaaaaaaaast majority of men in the entertainment industry are shallow, vapid trash tbh. Jay Z is hardly unique in this regard. All the industry parties, long hours, frequent trips, underage girls (or boys!), booze, drugs etc. does not exactly attract a person of integrity, lol. There was one cheating incident that we found out about, but you really think this is the first and only time he has cheated?
Beyonce is 100% staying for financial reasons.
I don’t think about because they are crazy rich and their lives are completely different than a normal couple.
The majority of top 40 music is brainwashing with lots of misogyny and shitty ideas about relationships. I don't listen to any of it. As for picking apart their realtionship -- wouldn't waste my time.
I would however like to vehemently condemn the shocking, overt racism in this thread.
Edit: racist replies have been erased from this thread.
Wasn't jay z grooming beyonce when she was a minor?
Seems to me like a trauma bond/grooming/staying to be a family etc. relationship.
He doesn’t appear to love or respect her at all, despite all that she is.
This video explains it all:
It's trash and they're being a bad romantic role model for others.
Jay Z admitted to the cheating and then tried to play the victim by saying he cheated because he had such a bad childhood.
He then said that after his kids were born that he respected Bey and could see things from her point and it made him want to loyal.
All of it is very toxic.
Beyonce is very talented, popular, successful, and beautiful. I remember being a pickme when hearing she was cheated on and thinking- even Beyonce gets cheated on, there's no hope, so I'll just have to put up with him chilling with his ex.
She became a massive pickme when she knew and continued to stay with him, and then added kids to a bad relationship 👎🏾not wise
Shame on them both. She really could have had a genuinely loving and loyal man and decided to be a victim, whiney pickme in Lemomade.
Queen Bee? More like, Queen Pick Me. 😂
i think he put a spell on her or something because he is hideous and she is gorgeous and he is a pos while she is a talented musician and business woman. so i really can't understand why she is with him. she should have left him when he cheated. maybe she is a family centered woman and that's why she didn't file for divorce... i don't know.
Yes the lyrics are REAL pickme. I think he is an abuser and she has trauma bond. And I think she isn't as secure and confident as the image she projects. Being that talented and perfect can also be a burden, you can never be vulnerable. I think she channels all her vulnerability/insecurity into being a pickme for JayZ in private, so she can keep up with her girlboss goddess persona in public. I think he doesn't "love" her and he's a narcissist like 99% of men in music business. But what do I know, this is just a feeling I get from their public appearances + her lyrics. Of course they are so rich there are also other factors at play we can't fully grasp.
Mods, sorry if this thread gets out of hand (arguing, any unwanted behaviors, and so on). I don’t mean this to turn into a slander gossip question / thread..
He’s ugly and he cheated on her 🤷🏼♀️
Rumor has it Jay Z used to date Blu Cantrell… and years later he & Beyoncé agreed to name their daughter Blue Ivy. 🤔
https://www.judiciaryreport.com/blu_cantrell_responds_to_beyonce_and_jay_z_naming_baby_after_her.htm