Ask what his ideal date looks like. if he starts talking about cuddles, or cool girl who settles for chill dates then you already know it’s a man-child.
Next question What does he like for a Woman to do For him If it’s the usual “cook and clean makes me laugh“ then it’s a goon who just wants a second mommy or nurse with a purse Who should accept crumbs.
Men high In value do not gush about what a woman can do for him He prioritise what he can offer first. Cooking and cleaning are basic skills he should be able to do himself.
When you look at the video called China’s leftover men you should see what the women want in a man.
That’s a man high in value and those scrotes want women of their choice to lower their standards.
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Dec 22, 2022
Ask him where he sees himself in 5 years. The answer to this question is very telling. He should say things that includes goals, ambitions, a plan for how to accomplish said goals, if he's got nothing to say, that means he's literally never thought about his future.
This question is great! I’ve had a few ghost me after this one. It’s my go to weeding out question.
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Dec 22, 2022
Ask him how is his relationship with his mother? If he hates his mother than he probably won't take good care of you. Ask how he comforts himself when stressed out? What does he turn to for comfort? An evolved man will say positive healthy things like , working out, turn to my spirituality, talk to my parents, friends. An unevolved man will turn to his vices when stressed. Drinking, drugs, sex etc.
I would let him talk and see where his mind is at. Pay attention to his overall vibe, the questions he asks, and his listening skills. Any question you devise can be answered with lies. What you can do is set a small boundary as a test and see how he responds. Also, I would avoid questions to him that you yourself do not want to answer (since we don't give men a template for how to manipulate us). Basically, let him lead and watch where he goes. Also would highly recommend studying body language / behavioural psych and profiling books for tips on how to read people. I find it quite helpful.
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Mar 20
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I agree. The best way to vet a man is to let him talk. Smile and nod, watch, and listen. I know this doesn't answer your question directly, OP, but I've found that if you let the man lead the conversation, you'll often have more answers to your questions than if you asked your questions outright.
Read between the lines as much as you can. Ask direct questions if you want, but only as a last resort.
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Ask what his ideal date looks like. if he starts talking about cuddles, or cool girl who settles for chill dates then you already know it’s a man-child.
Next question What does he like for a Woman to do For him If it’s the usual “cook and clean makes me laugh“ then it’s a goon who just wants a second mommy or nurse with a purse Who should accept crumbs.
Men high In value do not gush about what a woman can do for him He prioritise what he can offer first. Cooking and cleaning are basic skills he should be able to do himself.
When you look at the video called China’s leftover men you should see what the women want in a man.
That’s a man high in value and those scrotes want women of their choice to lower their standards.
Ask him where he sees himself in 5 years. The answer to this question is very telling. He should say things that includes goals, ambitions, a plan for how to accomplish said goals, if he's got nothing to say, that means he's literally never thought about his future.
Ask him how is his relationship with his mother? If he hates his mother than he probably won't take good care of you. Ask how he comforts himself when stressed out? What does he turn to for comfort? An evolved man will say positive healthy things like , working out, turn to my spirituality, talk to my parents, friends. An unevolved man will turn to his vices when stressed. Drinking, drugs, sex etc.
I would let him talk and see where his mind is at. Pay attention to his overall vibe, the questions he asks, and his listening skills. Any question you devise can be answered with lies. What you can do is set a small boundary as a test and see how he responds. Also, I would avoid questions to him that you yourself do not want to answer (since we don't give men a template for how to manipulate us). Basically, let him lead and watch where he goes. Also would highly recommend studying body language / behavioural psych and profiling books for tips on how to read people. I find it quite helpful.